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[Guest]

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[SKendall]

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Hi Starlight, I'm confused.

[diamond]

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I have been away and not really reading posts much - what happened? Please- oh dear - it's not me is it ??

[Guest]

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[gabby]

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I thought I knew what you were talkin about then I re-read and got confused.

[SKendall]

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Got it now. Hadn't read all of the threads, let's not worry too much. Methinks we are being wound up.

[diamond]

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Ok thanks Starlight at least I feel better now.

I will go and start reading .......... I may not be back for some time !! LOL

[Guest]

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[diamond]

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I can't see who you mean - can you pm and explain ? I don't want to be sucked in by mistake and either be upset by it or fall for it.

[hart]

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I don't know who u r talking about either but I'm sorry you experienced whatever you did.:l

[Guest]

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[diamond]

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i understand now what Starlight is saying, the person is sounding off and it has been said on this forum before that at certain stages in our lives, whether drinking or not we can be sensitive, have low self esteem etc

And what Starlight is saying is (I think) that the person is not seeing others actual emotional or psychological needs and is typing without thinking and then saying they don't care.

I am sensitive and have loads of times been upset when reading something someone has pm me or said to me or posted on a thread and this person 'appears' to be totally disregarding others feelings.

So please give us your opinion but... remember we are all human. I think !!!! LOL

[Guest]

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Whats all this about ? Im defintly missing something....

[YoungAtHeart]

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I think it may be gone now...I hope.

[Saint Jude]

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I deleted a post that I had put in last night regarding a fine line between judgement & support.
I've been seeing posts from a particular person, to another one ... that seem very much "in their face"...so to speak.
I don't like to see someone being kicked when they're down. Or being threatened with arrest...if they knew of their whereabouts! That to me is WAAYYY out OF LINE!
Just my humble opinion...

It's one thing to be concerned & offer support, ... it's another to threaten & scare with regards to lives & children.


This person may be thinking they are doing the right thing by using "tuff love" ... I don't know. I'm trying to see something positive here...