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    #31
    MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

    Oh Gabby....
    Praying hard.

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      #32
      MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

      I know lucky. Which is exactly why he has kept thing here. So he has that control. Which just kills me cuz when I take steps to remove that control he still comes out on top with getting the ro. But like my cop friend said...it really isnt a big deal as long as I dont break it. And he will have one on him too. I guess mainly its my pride that has been hit. And my heart but that is my kids that do that.
      Gabby :flower:

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        #33
        MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

        thanks popeye....so much.
        Gabby :flower:

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          #34
          MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

          Gabby,
          I feel so bad for your pain!!!! Divorce is horrid and painful and he has made it a thousand time worse. Hang tight my friend. I know the real pain comes from your children. I am sorry Gabby. Know we all love you!!!!

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            #35
            MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

            Gabby,

            How girl are you staying sober?! You have amazing strength.

            May I make a suggestion? Do another 30 days of the hypnotic CDs - particularly the Clearing CD. The purpose of the CDs is to get rid of the 'negative thoughts' that run through our heads that drive us to drink.

            During hypnosis 'Envision' a new family/communication structure where both you and your Ex are supportive and loving of your children.

            Right now your kids are the rope between y'alls tug-of-war and it very well might be strangling them. You can't change your Ex but you can change your envolvement by substituting the drama with more loving thoughts that are in the best interest of your children. They are more important than a family table any day of the week.

            Sending Lots of luv and prayers, N2

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              #36
              MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

              Gabby,
              Keep your faith ! I'm a man & I know some guys can be real dogs ! Just want you to know that all men are'nt that way. Some of us can be sencetive. I hope that you can teach your sons to be that way. IAD
              ?Be who you are and say what you feel because
              those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.?
              Dr. Seuss

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                #37
                MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

                Thanks n2 and IAD. I really appreciate your input.

                n2....that sounds all good. But right now my involvement needs to be on a level zero. Even with the kids. And one of my mistakes was not makin it a level zero a long time ago.

                IAD...it warms my heart to have a male respond even with my sourness. Sorry and thank you all in the same breath.
                Gabby :flower:

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                  #38
                  MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

                  That's the point Gabbs, the fact that you're staying strong and don't descend into the alcohol trap you're showing character. It's a silent response to your ex that he's not winning the battle, but that he's basically making an arse out of himself, and that he's really pathetic and basically did all this because he's frightened of you.
                  Paddy
                  Time's fun when you're having flies. - Kermit the Frog - eace:

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                    #39
                    MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

                    Gabby you are SO strong. Good on you for not drinking during a stressful ordeal. Like Paddy said you are silently showing your ex he is not winning the battle. Keep on your lawyer to get this shit dealt with. I admire you very much. You are an amazingly strong woman! Sending you lots of hugs and prayers.

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                      #40
                      MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

                      Control

                      Hi Gabby,

                      It's all about control.

                      I have spent many hours at the following site, the name is misleading though,

                      Welcome to Dr Irene's Verbal Abuse (Site)!

                      Ex. is not frightened, he sees no battle, those are sort of normal things.

                      Men like this are SO far from normal they are beyond repair. Men like this are the reason women leave the country on underground trains and change their names......to keep their sanity.

                      Gabby, girl I don't know where you are but catch this...........X.......

                      Nancy.
                      ~Are you looking for the Holy One?
                      I am in the next seat.
                      My shoulder is against yours. ~Kabir

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                        #41
                        MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

                        great site magic thanks a bunch. got anymore?
                        Gabby :flower:

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                          #42
                          MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

                          Gabby!

                          Hang tough! You WILL get through this!

                          Lotsa hugs
                          K
                          Nov 1 2006 avg 100 - 120 drinks/week
                          April 29 2011 TSM avg 70 - 80/wk
                          wks* 1- 6: 256/1AF (avg 42.6/wk)
                          wks* 7-12: 229/3AF (avg 38.1/wk)
                          wks 13-18: 192/5AF (avg 32.0/wk)
                          wks 19-24: 176/1AF (avg 29.3/wk)
                          wks 25-30: 154/10AF (avg 25.6/wk)
                          wks 31-36: 30/37AF (avg 5/wk )

                          I may not be there yet, but I'm closer than I was yesterday.
                          http://www.thesinclairmethod.net/community/

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                            #43
                            MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

                            Magic....that site is so cool and there is so much info on verbal and emotional abuse there. I am amazed. thanks again.

                            thanks Kate too. Need the hugs. :l
                            Gabby :flower:

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                              #44
                              MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

                              If you need any more hugs I got some for you ...

                              :l :l :l :l


                              stay strong hon,

                              Diamond xx
                              I feel as though it's all happening to someone right next to me.
                              I'm close, I can feel it, I can hear it, but it isn't really me.

                              Marilyn Monroe

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                                #45
                                MAD, BUT I DON'T HATE MYSELF

                                ahhhh.....thanks diamond!!!
                                Gabby :flower:

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