Soccermom, I think what you are feeling is common for a lot of us. We are scared of the outcome if we stand our ground and tell people how we feel about them. Whether it be family, relationships, etc. You are by far the bigger person here. You allow him to visit with your children no matter what you feel. All I can say is if he ridicules you or says anything inappropriate, address it right there. Calmly of course. Keep doing this until he gets it, if he ever does. You don't deserve to take his verbal garbage. :l
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Soccermom, I think what you are feeling is common for a lot of us. We are scared of the outcome if we stand our ground and tell people how we feel about them. Whether it be family, relationships, etc. You are by far the bigger person here. You allow him to visit with your children no matter what you feel. All I can say is if he ridicules you or says anything inappropriate, address it right there. Calmly of course. Keep doing this until he gets it, if he ever does. You don't deserve to take his verbal garbage. :l
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As distinguished from the more common "pimp slap", a bitch slap is preceeded by ample forewarning and delivered with a flourish or exaggerated post-blow hip movements. Nonetheless, the blow is firm and may involve an open forhand or backhand.
A "pimp slap", to the contrary, is regularly delivered without announcement and oftentimes over breakfast at an IHOP, on a subway platform, or numerous other indiscriminately chosen venues. The blow is always, always struck with the back of ones hand as to do otherwise is bad form. And the hip motion that accompanies a pimp slap provides the torque to knock a bitch silly.
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