He left me a message at work today asking where the hell we've been been, saying they've been leaving all of these messages (they left 2, 1 was when stepmom said they weren't doing the favor last Friday, 2 was when dad was checking in to do damage control the same day if there needed any). That was 4 days ago, the longest we've gone without speaking in years. I just mailed the letter and they should have it by tomorrow. I'm afraid Reenie, that I was not as nice as your dad was. My dad had put me through me through too much in my life and he's not going to do it to my daughter too. Told him he needed to go to a Nyquilaholics meeting and a racistaholics meeting, and that I can't even feel sorry for him because he's such a hateful person and to just us leave us be until he gets his @#%$ together and "they" get out of their sick co-dependent bubble. I told him about the snopping I've been doing so there's no point in even denying it or trying to blame it on someone who was in the hospital (my stepmom) while it was going missing. All those trips to the stop and shop for Nyquil yet he couldn't watch my kid for 1 hour so I could go to the doctor. He's not worth my time and I told him so. I told him the next time he spent even a second worrying about us to look in the mirror.
I said "Our family is sick in the head and I'm tired of it and want out". Oh boy have I opened up a can of worms or what?????
I think I know how this is how this may play out. She is going to be heartbroken because she wants to see her granddaughter, he is going to blame me and figure out a way to make this my fault because I am the big anxiety ridden snoop and how dare I snoop on them. Or he'll tell me I drink too much wine and I'll say "how would you know you're too drunk on Nyquil to know". This is gonna be great.
I said "Our family is sick in the head and I'm tired of it and want out". Oh boy have I opened up a can of worms or what?????
I think I know how this is how this may play out. She is going to be heartbroken because she wants to see her granddaughter, he is going to blame me and figure out a way to make this my fault because I am the big anxiety ridden snoop and how dare I snoop on them. Or he'll tell me I drink too much wine and I'll say "how would you know you're too drunk on Nyquil to know". This is gonna be great.
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