Now, I am so happy I want to scream from the rooftops. Something internally has shifted. I am not saying this time this is easy. No way. But I have such a different mindset, and it makes me really, REALLY want this. I have come to realize something that now seems, well....so obvious.
I don't drink because I enjoy it. I really don't. Not anymore. I drink because. Well, because that is what I do. And that is what I have done for so many years at a certain time every day. And I drink because I am sooo afraid of the consequences if I don't. Afraid of facing....the cravings. Those evil cravings. When my own head tells me "I want to drink sooo bad I can't stand it". And you know what? Craving do stink. And drinking immediately rids of them. BUT THIS IS THE THING. If I don't drink...Cravings do pass.
AND IF I DO DRINK, I HAVE SOMETHING MUCH WORSE...THE GUILT, SHAME, HANGOVERS, REMORSE, HUMILIATION. These DON'T pass. They stay all day, all night, all day, all night. They never go away.
The only way to stop all this is to stop drinking. The cravings will be tough, but WILL pass. In three days, I think I have had about a total of an hour of true discomfort. When I compare that to a day filled with hangover and remorse, it seems almost like a piece of cake (except during the hour, of course). But truth is, I realize that if I can ride these few minutes each day for now of (torture?/cravings), they will pass, and I don't have to deal with all the rest of that crap. Otherwise, If I continue to drink, where does that leave me? I am left, stuck, forever with all the rest.
Seems so darn simple.
I just re-read these words, and I am sure I knew this all along...But I don't think I really "got" it until today. WOW!!
I hope I continue to "GET IT" tomorrow.
Wish me luck
Beth
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