Overwhelmed with life
LUV, you know I agree with everything everyone else has said.....I said when I got the cancer thing, after loosing my Dad, being a single Mom, remarried, blah, blah....that God doesn't give you more than you can handle...but I said...He Might Be Trusting Me Toooooo Much....!!!!! You have had more than a fair share of crap.... I guess I always try to look for any silver lining, so mine for you is, that God put you HERE WITH US...for a big reason....if you hadn't gone off the diving board into the deep end of the wine pool, we'd have never met you, and you'd have never had a chance to be such a HUGE INSPIRATION TO SOOO MANY HERE...you are my hero! Heck, I even want a polka-dot dress! (grin)..... That said, and maybe being selfish for having you here....as a single Mom, I have absolutely NO IDEA how you do it with 2 kids and a dying Mom, and company....I don't, seriously...and it HAS to be depressing....I know you are on the topa, how 'bout upping the LO to 3 x's a day, it sure helps me with feeling balanced, and level, and gives me energy too...God knows you need energy....I hear "tired" all over you! I think you do need to seek out a support group, and you need to get Hospice in the house...your Mom has stopped treatment, I know you are waiting for tests, but you need HELP.....or all the relatives need to pitch in, your Mom's HUSBAND....and everyone involved, need to hire you help, with everything involved in taking care of her, and the house she resides in with you, and ALL...There's no need for them to go about their day as usual, and your life is upside down....no need....You cannot be and do it all....you know that! You have to get some relief, not alcohol, cuz that'll be worse, but relief....however you have to get it....call your stepdad, have him take a leave....surely understandable....I don't know all the solutions, but you need to take the bull by the horns, and get your relatives to help...and they need to get a hotel room too...or, they can stay and take care of Mama at the house, and you and the kids go to a hotel, or B&B, or cabin someplace, and chill out, let them HAVE THEIR TURN at doing the caregiving..... You have to be here a long time, you can't let this pull you down, if you get sick, its all the worse, all the way around....WE LOVE YOU....I completely understand...and if anyone has a reason/trigger, its you, but we are going to HELP YOU THRU THIS....we need you too....again selfish, but I gotta be selfish for you too, you are our main concern....call me anytime!!!!! Try upping the LO, let me know if you need more...or need anything, I'm here!!!!! And remember, you are my hero, and I'm your biggest fan in Texas!
LUV, you know I agree with everything everyone else has said.....I said when I got the cancer thing, after loosing my Dad, being a single Mom, remarried, blah, blah....that God doesn't give you more than you can handle...but I said...He Might Be Trusting Me Toooooo Much....!!!!! You have had more than a fair share of crap.... I guess I always try to look for any silver lining, so mine for you is, that God put you HERE WITH US...for a big reason....if you hadn't gone off the diving board into the deep end of the wine pool, we'd have never met you, and you'd have never had a chance to be such a HUGE INSPIRATION TO SOOO MANY HERE...you are my hero! Heck, I even want a polka-dot dress! (grin)..... That said, and maybe being selfish for having you here....as a single Mom, I have absolutely NO IDEA how you do it with 2 kids and a dying Mom, and company....I don't, seriously...and it HAS to be depressing....I know you are on the topa, how 'bout upping the LO to 3 x's a day, it sure helps me with feeling balanced, and level, and gives me energy too...God knows you need energy....I hear "tired" all over you! I think you do need to seek out a support group, and you need to get Hospice in the house...your Mom has stopped treatment, I know you are waiting for tests, but you need HELP.....or all the relatives need to pitch in, your Mom's HUSBAND....and everyone involved, need to hire you help, with everything involved in taking care of her, and the house she resides in with you, and ALL...There's no need for them to go about their day as usual, and your life is upside down....no need....You cannot be and do it all....you know that! You have to get some relief, not alcohol, cuz that'll be worse, but relief....however you have to get it....call your stepdad, have him take a leave....surely understandable....I don't know all the solutions, but you need to take the bull by the horns, and get your relatives to help...and they need to get a hotel room too...or, they can stay and take care of Mama at the house, and you and the kids go to a hotel, or B&B, or cabin someplace, and chill out, let them HAVE THEIR TURN at doing the caregiving..... You have to be here a long time, you can't let this pull you down, if you get sick, its all the worse, all the way around....WE LOVE YOU....I completely understand...and if anyone has a reason/trigger, its you, but we are going to HELP YOU THRU THIS....we need you too....again selfish, but I gotta be selfish for you too, you are our main concern....call me anytime!!!!! Try upping the LO, let me know if you need more...or need anything, I'm here!!!!! And remember, you are my hero, and I'm your biggest fan in Texas!
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she would also appreciate it if you would read her and the other two girls stories. she likes classics. cheers.
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