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Hi Limers!
I found being sober changed me in so many ways that my ex hardly new the new me! A big part of that was growing up and learning to accept responsibility for my actions. I was no longer in limbo and existing for alcohol. This opened my eyes to a whole new world and I unfortunately didn't see my ex being a part of that anymore as we were already on different paths I think. It took me months to actually inniciate any conversation about it though as I was still finding my own two feet with sobriety and I wasn't strong enough to let go. My Situation I know is a bit different than yours but when we decide to curb our drinking and do something about it then we need our partners to be supportive and grow with us. He may be feeling like he is being left behind with it all and why he maybe doesn't show you support when you need it and it becomes a situation about him then.
I'm no psychologist limers and I can only give you the experience of my own situations. You really have to think about the changes you are making in your life right now and where you intend to go with them and be 100% truthful with yourself and your partner.
Love and Happiness
Hippie37 xx
Hi Limers!
I found being sober changed me in so many ways that my ex hardly new the new me! A big part of that was growing up and learning to accept responsibility for my actions. I was no longer in limbo and existing for alcohol. This opened my eyes to a whole new world and I unfortunately didn't see my ex being a part of that anymore as we were already on different paths I think. It took me months to actually inniciate any conversation about it though as I was still finding my own two feet with sobriety and I wasn't strong enough to let go. My Situation I know is a bit different than yours but when we decide to curb our drinking and do something about it then we need our partners to be supportive and grow with us. He may be feeling like he is being left behind with it all and why he maybe doesn't show you support when you need it and it becomes a situation about him then.
I'm no psychologist limers and I can only give you the experience of my own situations. You really have to think about the changes you are making in your life right now and where you intend to go with them and be 100% truthful with yourself and your partner.
Love and Happiness
Hippie37 xx
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