Infatuation

[morrison]

Okay. I did not want to post this for obvious reasons. Have you ever been infatuated with somebody? I know this board is mostly women, so I don?t know what goes through your mind. I can?t get this girl out of my mind. It is driving my nuts. I?m 35 years old and I feel like a teenager with puppy love. She doesn?t even know who I am. I don?t know why, but I think she is beautiful. My friends don?t see it. But, I don?t see what they see either. She could probably have anybody. Does this happen to anybody else? Is there truly something like love at first site. This is freaking me out, because, I?m never like this..

[trixietrack]

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yeah morrison. I had that happen when I was 28. I don't think I have ever loved like that before and somehow don't feel I ever will.
It ended up being a very complicated long distance love, and we broke it off but I am still affected by it.
we are friends now.
I was so in love like in the clouds in love.
my friends thought I was stupid.

sniff sniff

[morrison]

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Thanks Trix. It is mind boggling. I don't know why, but I dream of this girl. It is fucked up. I know I'm not in control of my habits, but I get the job done, always. I'm always in control, when it comes to certain things. My job, the people I love. I do what I do. I think most of us can relate to that. Ah, I guess I just have to let it go.

[FinallyRN]

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Well, I was 22 when HE walked through the door. I said to myself "that's the man I'm going to marry". He was the love of my life. I still think of him and wish him Happy B-day every Dec 2nd. That was over 20 years ago.
A collegue of mine said something interesting about that encounter. She said that I recognized him from another life. Food for thought.

[trixietrack]

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morrison;233995 wrote: Thanks Trix. It is mind boggling. I don't know why, but I dream of this girl. It is fucked up. I know I'm not in control of my habits, but I get the job done, always. I'm always in control, when it comes to certain things. My job, the people I love. I do what I do. I think most of us can relate to that. Ah, I guess I just have to let it go.

does she know you or about you? can you ask her for coffee? or just smile and see how she responds?

[betty boop]

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I agree with Trixie, let her know that you exist .............

[choklyteyes]

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It does happen....

I can tell u it does happen...let the person know!!! I am happily married to that person seven yrs. Wish u the best!

[MyOwnWoman]

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The universe has her reasons for bringing certain people into our lives. I believe that when one is inexplicably drawn to another, there is something that we are to learn from encounters or relationship with that person. So find out what it is!!!

[morrison]

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MyOwnWoman;234080 wrote: The universe has her reasons for bringing certain people into our lives. I believe that when one is inexplicably drawn to another, there is something that we are to learn from encounters or relationship with that person. So find out what it is!!!

Wow. That is heavy. I can't do anything for a while. My confidence is low, as it should be. Christ, another reason we shouldn't drink, right? Ugg. 10 years ago I would just go up to her and ask her to dinner or something. Nope. Not now. I Look and feel like shit.

[bootcampbarbie]

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well, there is no way you should go up to her. a guy who takes out two bags full of bottles after 3 days of drinking should not be going up to a woman with anything. you need to focus on yourself........ period zero...... you are drinking morning, noon and night..... this is not a guy who is ready for a relationship.

[bootcampbarbie]

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and you know that i'm posting to you because you asked for help my man... so if you post that you have taken to the garbage two very large bags of empties.... i'm just being straight with you..... so, be infatuated.... and then look in the mirror and deal with that guy..... he is the one who desperately needs you to fall in love with him.
HE IS THE ONE WHO REALLY NEEDS YOU TO FEEL LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT.
love sistah boots

[Guest]

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I was JUST going to say what Bootsie said. You need to work on you.

[morrison]

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Yep. When I get back into shape I won't need anybody again. Thanks for the reminder. Some people need weak people to feel good about themselves. Thanks for being a smartass. I really appreciate it. This wasn't about how I feel right now. It was when I was sober. But, like I said, whatever makes you feel better about yourself. I'll try to keep on posting negative shit. I was going to write some good positive stuff today, but that wouldn't really be good now would it?

[Lorelei]

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Morrison,

I'm not sure that's what Bootsie was saying. I think she was trying to encourage you to work on yourself so you can be in a positive relationship, with the woman you are infatuated with possibly. For me relationships are like a shiney object, distracting me from the work I need to do for myself. I've got a man I'm very much in love with who won't be with ma as I am. I've found that when we are talking I get less done on me and focus on us. I'm actually glad that he's not talking to me at the moment so I can lay the foundation for me, so there can be an us later.



-lorlei

[bootcampbarbie]

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??? haven't a fucking clue what you just said. are you going to be a smart ass with me morrison? because personally you killing yourself isn't on my xmas wish list. write something negative or positive. whatever. but get your ass into rehab... and then write from there. how's that......
and if you are saying that i need you to be weak to feel good about myself you can kiss my fucking ass. cuz then i would say you are an ungrateful asshole and all i've ever done is love you and been a stand for you and been able to really be here for you and want for you to stop killing yourself. but then again if you weren't saying that good. because i wouldn't be saying that to me of all people if you were a smart person....