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    #1

    Hi

    Been out drinking today with my husbands family.

    (IRISH family) Big drinkers.

    Had loads. Home now.
    Usual story. ,...want more....NOT opening a bottle..having coffee and a baileys.

    Husband taking dog out now. If he was here, it would just be the coffee....

    finding it really hard to NOT open a bottle.

    I have responsibilities tomorrow...taking my son to school, looking after a 7 wk old etc... need i say more.!

    I am a really CRAP friend to all at MWO now...i used to be good support to those who need it. I'm not now. Sorry to all of you.!

    I am there in spirit but thats no help to you is it!

    I just need support now but feel like i don't deserve it as i'm crap at giving it.

    thanks anyway my friends....Bella xxxxxx
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    #2
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    It's our turn to support you...

    Drink your coffee and baileys and call it a night. You do have responsibilities tomorrow. Finish tonight well so you can face them tomorrow....

    We're here for you, Bella

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      #3
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      thankyou Chief....it sounds so corney but ...i feel the warmth from you. Bella xxx

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        #4
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        Bella,

        It is so okay to need support and not be able to give it. We all understand.

        Been there, done that, sweetie.

        Go to bed. Don't open that bottle. Okay? For you!!

        Love you,
        Cindi
        AF April 9, 2016

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          #5
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          Sometimes we need support and can't be the ones to give...that is OK.....it is OK. Get some rest. Don't drink any more. Loads of love to you.

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            #6
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            Hi Bella, I have been out with my family today, we went out for lunch as it's my daughters
            birthday. The drink was flowing, and much to my surprise I didn't touch a drop. I don't know why but I just didn't feel like it. This time last year was a different story. It's very
            difficult to mix with drinkers when your feeling vulnerable. I do hope you don't open another bottle, go and get some sleep, and don't punish yourself, you know you can do it
            Love Paula. x.
            .

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              #7
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              db2 and Luvu.....thankyou!

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                #8
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                Thanks Paula...you are right,,,its difficult but sounds like you did well today. X

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                  #9
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                  Yes I feel very good at the moment, so too will you.
                  Love Paula.xx
                  .

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                    #10
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                    Its sooo good to feel good Paula...Good for u! X

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                      #11
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                      (((Bella))) I'm thinking of you Bella and wishing you a better day tomorrow.
                      Marcie

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                        #12
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                        Bella, have you read Croft's thread in the Just Starting Out section, about not beating yourself up? It's very inspirational...

                        And ... just when you said you weren't very helpful here, you stopped believing that and reached out to Damaged Soul. You ARE inspirational to many of us, especially those young mothers that are sharing your journey. Listen to Chief, and come back. :l Much love                        ,

                        Patty
                        Tampa, FL

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                          #13
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                          Not Happy Hour-Happy life......what you just wrote now to me was ...inspirational...thankyou, I am touched by that.X

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                            #14
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                            Bella, You are very supportive here!!!

                            Do I have to remind you how bad you will feel tomorrow morning?????

                            Don't open that bottle .........

                            Love ya hon, BB xx
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