Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

[BELIEVE]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

KateH1;340780 wrote: Hey Believe! Good to see you popping in! 6 Months, Wow!! Of course, for me, once again I have to go back and count!! LOL!! Weird, but not counting everyday has really been helpful to me.......yet, at the same time, I love to know what month I am in????!!! Crazy, Huh?

To our 6 Monther's Way To Go Gang!! You Rock!!! You are all such an inspiration to me! So Happy that you are all living such Healthy Lives!!

Love, Kate XXX

Yeah I stopped counting days once I hit 30, I just kept track of my stopping d8 per some very good advice from Wonder. It made a huge difference for me, the difference between my AF time being a fluke or my new reality. Never thought it wold last this long though lol. Its wierd, I can't imagine going my whole life and never drinking again. On the other hand, I can't imagine ever wanting to drink again...that whole scene is for the birds. Pretty dopey thing for someone with 6 months 2b saying I know..one would think all that would be squared away by now.

[Beck]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

Believe, I don't count days anymore either though I do like to know what month I am in. So it is 4 months. Don't think the not being squared away with the forever thing is "dopey" - think forever is a pretty big goal to wrap your head around.

I still have trouble thinking of myself as a non-drinker. Perhaps if (excuse me WHEN) I survive moving house these next few weeks. Thankful (among others) tells me people move house every day without drinking. Will be good to remember where I put my stuff the next day.

Beck

[livingfree]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

Good evening everyone!

What an awesome weekend! Believe ... It is just shocking to think about that 6 month mark isn't it!! I will complete 6 months in 3 weeks and then on to month 7. I am now starting to get excited and nervous about getting past month 8. I know I shouldn't count - but 10 years ago I managed to get 8 1/2 months AF ... then did the ... Oh I can drink a little .... then the past 10 years is all my drinking history. So.......... that is going to be a huge leap for me when that time comes. Maybe that is why I am still counting .... I didn't count back then, but i also didn't think I had a "real" problem with it either. So lets buckle down and stay close for the summer!

MM - I am so proud of you. Wow - that is a TON of AF days. Your liver, and other organs are much healthier for this. You will continue to do FANTASTIC ... I am sure of it!! :l

Det & Beck - I think you both should read the rational recovery book. It would help you understand why making a "forever" commitment is not a scary way to go. It really really really helped me become firm in my decision after I read it.

Kaddy - way to go ... you are past the 90 mark!

Teardrop - way to go on your 55 - you are almost at the 2 month mark! That will feel awesome! Way to go!

Kate - you are right there working on your 6th month too! I know your not counting but still a BIG HUG! I know how much it means to you!! :h

WW - Thankful and the rest of the gang - love to all and goodnight!

PS - I rode MY motercycle this afternoon for 2 hours with hubbie! I am still a beginner, but getting more comfortable each time I go out! I still CANT believe I have a motercycle. It is so crazy. I promise to post a photo as soon as I get my "personalized" plate on it! You will all like the plate!!

Love,

[kaddy]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

morning all,, what a nice weekend it was
have a good day all

[KateH1]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

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Listen to all of us!!! Look at all the life we are living now that we have given up the grog!! I just cannot even imagine trying to hold on to any of that poison! We are all getting there, getting to a time when this will no longer be an issue or even a thought!

I had my 2 year old granddaughter for a sleepover on saturday night! We went to the park and played, then to the pool......had "spisgetti and meatballs" for dinner, then snuggled and watched a movie before bedtime! Yesterday my daughter came over, we went to the Botanical Gardens, then lunch and a little shopping and then to see "Sex in the City". Good movie!!

Wishing everyone a safe, sane and most of all non-drinking week!!

XXXX Kate

[BELIEVE]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

Haha Beck I think moving and remaining AF are entirely doable! ANd you're right, it would make things a little easier to find the next day. Just another one of those activities we (me definatley) associated with drinking that will now require a little re-aquaintance, but no worries, right?

Liv I think you have a legit excuse to still be counting. Not that theres anything wrong with counting if that works for you though. Yep we'll help you get past that 8.5 month record alright. And don't feel bad, up till now my personal best was 14 days lol. SO here we go, buckling down for the summer

Personally I can't believe it IS damn near summer already. Years half gone, but what a year so far huh? What a year.

[Beck]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

Another day...more reinforcement that sober is good. My 7th graders award ceremony - apparently she is Queen of the 7th Grade - she was given the top 2 awards. And right after got home in time to rush my 7 year old to Dr for a breathing treatment - she said "Mommy, my lungs hurt". All better now. Being present is such a joy.

Liv, will read it if you think it will help. Love your motorcycle stories. Wonderful to do something new.

Believe, yep a sober move - Okay, I'm a little worried.

Kate, being present is what I treasure most.

Hello Kaddy!

Okay, moving day tomorrow and I'm still packing. ARGH!!! Not fun but worth it. My thoughts and my writing are disjointed today. Unplugging tonight for a week or so.

Be well,
Beck

[kaddy]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

morning all
hi beck

[Determinator]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

hey now...what's this thread doing on page two? A hem......


Liv...pictures please!

heading home tomorrow from Califunny. it's been nice and sunny here but being in hotels still blows all the same.

As far as counting? hey...whatever works. if I found out that wearing purple underwear helped my sobriety....I'd be wearing them!

be well friends

[kaddy]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

morning evryone,,, hope everyone is well

96 af days

[livingfree]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

Thirst - we've all been there. Hope you are able to find something that helps you here. Anger comes from a root of frustration. Drinking when you WANT to stop is called addiction. If you want to stop you can. Best to you.

Thanks all for the support I get here. 163 days AF and still counting!! :H I can't wait for the rest of the family to get back from there adventures away! Det - I WILL be posting that picture ... I am waiting for my personalized lic plate to arrive!! It's awesome!!

Gotta keep moving this am - get to work!!

[BELIEVE]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

thirst4romance;344508 wrote: So why are there so few people on these boards past 60 days ? I'll tell you the went back drinking again coz this program spouts complete rubbish. If you enjoy enjoy buying a ple of crap you dont need and hypno tapes then make whoever runs this crap then go ahead i get all i need for free

I was going to flame your ass but I don't know you or your situation, so I'll chill for the moment....maybe you should do the same.

[Evie.Lou]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

TODAY IS DAY 31 AF.....NOW I AM 31 AND BEYOUND PROUD.....EVIE

[KateH1]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

Keep going Evie!!! You are doing so well!! Welcome to the 31 and beyond thread!!

Believe, I came here and immediately felt like our home had been invaded! Sort of like somone vandalizing your property! Then I saw your post, and calmed down........thank you!

I guess the only thing to do is feel sorry for this poor bugger. So angry, so "thirstly 4 love". I guess the thought that many of us have found friendship and sobriety was just too much for this person to take!

Well, we shall carry on, embracing our non-drinking lives and supporting each other!!!

Love to All,
Kate

[meditation mama]

Day 31 and Beyond: Hello, I'm a non-drinker

Hello, my lovely friends!!

I'm still doing really well.. just have been busy, busy, busy. I am still amazed how much extra time I have in my life when drinking is GONZO! Last night I cooked out on the grill for me an DD. She set the table, we talked about lots of great stuff.. including her telling me that "hip" is no longer "cool" to say.. hahaha! Oh, well.. At least she said I was a "cool Mom"! Made my night.

I have gotten over beating myself up for my little slip last month. I know I had some really tough circumstances with that surgery. But I also know I will never take Vicodin again.. Hopefully all my helath problems are over now - my back feels fantastic because I have lost 20 pounds and have been working our with my trainer, and all my abdominal pain is also gone. YEAH! So, I am truly back in the saddle again.. .

Sounds like everyone is doing really well. I hope you guys don't mind me hanging out here. I really feel like you guys are my inspiration and this is my home. I am a NON-DRINKER, so this is where I feel the best.

Evielou - WAY TO GO, sister!!! 30 days is just the begining... :h

Kate - I know, I read Mr. Thirsty and was like what? - who let him in! WRONG PARTY! Anyway, not to worry, that is not what we are about and that is certainly something to ignore... !

Liv - 163 - YOU ROCK MY FRIEND!! I want to see a picture of your bike.. Oh, I can just imagine how hot you must look, you little vixon..:H

Believe - "flame your ass" - OMG - you never cease to crack me up! Sound like you are happy healthy and wise, my dear friend... I just love to read your posts.. we have the same sense of humor.. hope you are enjoying your summer!

Kaddy - 96 days!! Yahoo! I know for me and a few folks here - we had a little tough time around the 90 day mark. Not necassary wanting to drink, just another emotional step. Seems like there is another awakening around then.. How are you feeling? It was just like another layer had been peeled for me... maybe feeling a bit more exposed to the new AF life.. I am sure you are doing fine.. Congratulations again!

Det - You sound fantastic. Well, except for the purple undies... I'll bet you can't wait to get home. What a difference life must be for you now that you go home without dragging that fat bastard AL!!! - I'll bet DX is so happy!!

Beck - MOVING!!! My nemisis.. Take it easy...

Well, were is WONDER? haven't seen her around - Oh, maybe becasue I haven't been around.. I think she was out West, right? Well, I am going to have a bit more time now to come and play here. I had been working with my trainer early in the morning and with school, it was really hard. Now DD is out of school and I have an extra hour in the morning.. so I'm BACK!

To anyone I missed or those to come - Namaste, my friends!

xoxoxo

MM