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[lookingforhope]

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We all fuck up....I seem to have lost my way which I had found a few months ago.

And, BTW, sex is fun. Especially when not drunk.

[The Londoner]

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Hi Tom

Good Post - yes you caught my eye first thing this sunny morning here in London-and good responses.
Thought you were going to tell us you had a problem with too much sex lol but no your problem is our problem, too much alcohol.

You have come to such a good place here at MWO. I have been coming for 6 months now (that's a shock for me!) and it's getting busier by the day! Lots of new people, lots of posts, can be hard to be heard sometimes so boy were you right to shout SEX.

I am not going to add much to the wonderful advice already given. Would like to say though that my life has turned around over the past 6 months. From 35 years of drinking too much to long periods of AF.

If I can, you can. Start saying you can,right now! Do lots of research around the boards at MWO. When you are ready, start working out your personal action plan, writing it down can help, and consider posting it here . It's bloody hard at times but there is so much support here, every angle is covered! We all stumble and trip along the way. It doesn't matter, as long as we are ready to learn from those slips, allow them to make us stronger and more resolute, more determined for change, more determined to fight hard for a better life for ourselves.

YOU CAN DO THIS TOM!

here to help and cheering you on
Anna :h:welcome:

[4theboyz]

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Hey Tom,

It seems to me you're desperate for help with your problem since you felt strongly enough to use the word sex to bring about attention to your situation. All your other posts seemed so positive and determined to go AF yet now you say your are in a lot of trouble. What happened?

You told the entire cyber world your problem so perhaps it is time to tell those around you who can directly help you fight this. AL is many times just the tip of the iceberg and AL is only numbing out the real problems in our lives. Going AF forces us to have to deal with those problems and you have to be able to handle them which for me has been the hardest part of recovery.

IMO it sounds as though you have a lot to deal with and outside help even professional help may be something for you to consider.

Good Luck

[maasai]

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frogger, KEEP IT SIMPLE AM SURE WE ARE HERE FOR PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION, IF IT WERE PERFECTION NON OF US WOULD STILL BE HERE,