thier taking my cat away

[jay42]

my beutiful bumese cat shadow
he had a few stomach probs
the cat women came around tonite saying if you cant afford the special diet we wil take him back
its notmy fault ive got no money i cant keep affording this special food
its just another fuked up thing in my life right now
ive had enough
il leave the board for a while
mister hyde has taken over

[Accountable for Me]

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Jay what you save in drinking less or not drinking will certainly pay for your cat's special food.

[lucky 2.0]

thier taking my cat away

The special diet food is mega important. My cat died because he was not on it and needed to be. I did not know though.

[jay42]

thier taking my cat away

acountable for me
dont be patronising
we are all in the grip of booze
im fully aware of my pracitaclities etc
but i dont need your bullshit
ive left the board

[4theboyz]

thier taking my cat away

Jay,

You aren't the first nor will you be the last to drop everything and run off. I doubt that little outburst made you feel any better and it surely won't discourage the generous people here from offering you a helping hand when you decide you are ready to try and pick up the pieces.

Be safe and just take care.

[lucky 2.0]

thier taking my cat away

bye bye

[Accountable for Me]

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I wasn't being patronizing at all. I don't appreciate the PM either. Maybe I should of said "unfortunately the amount of money we spend/t on booze can go to something better." Take it the way you want to I guess.

[Last Of The Summer Wine]

thier taking my cat away

Where's Betty when we need her? Seems like a few folks are in a bad place tonight and I am sorry for that, but I don't have the answer either. Not sure why I'm even posting this, as it's no help whatsoever. I do remember being pretty down a while ago myself and even just getting a short response helped a bit. But in the end we have to take responsibility for our own actions, and that's probably the hardest part, Jay. Even if you don't post any more, keep reading, every little effort you make has got to be better than the alternative.
J

[Last Of The Summer Wine]

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Sorry Accountable, posted at the same time, I understand what you meant.
J

[betty boop]

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Jay is in a really really bad place at the minute, He isn't an attention seeker threatening to leave just to get attention ............ he really needs some help.

Please guys cut him some slack ............

[jay42]

thier taking my cat away

im sick of being slagged off here in pms etc
screw u duck
im not sorry accountable for me for what i siad
roberta can kick me off if she wants

[WA]

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Jay..pets become part of the family and to lose them hurts....just sending you a little love just now xx
Jacqui xxx

[Accountable for Me]

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Yeah, well, maybe he should try not to slam those who are trying to help him, BB. There was nothing wrong with my initial post and he sends me a PM that wasn't so nice. Then now another post.

God, the guy posts that he is hurting, and needs help all of the time and I have never seen him pay it forward to anyone else on the boards. I am tired of walking on eggshells. Sometimes people need to hear the truth and get some help.

Always making things so cushy and cosy is enabling their behaviour too. IMHO.

[trixietrack]

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peace and love ya'll

[MyHeartIsDrenchedInWine]

thier taking my cat away

Accountable for Me;290374 wrote: Yeah, well, maybe he should try not to slam those who are trying to help him, BB. There was nothing wrong with my initial post and he sends me a PM that wasn't so nice. Then now another post.

God, the guy posts that he is hurting, and needs help all of the time and I have never seen him pay it forward to anyone else on the boards. I am tired of walking on eggshells. Sometimes people need to hear the truth and get some help.

Always making things so cushy and cosy is enabling their behaviour too. IMHO.

There was nothing wrong with your post, it was just taken wrong.