Hubby quit his job

[hart]

Joe just cc: me a copy of an e-mail he sent to his boss, resigning. No talk to me first, no calling and telling me.......no, just a cc: to me.

I'm angry, upset, want to cry and hit someone at the same time. How dare he. How dare he quit a job w/o telling me.

I've been trying to be understanding. I know he is unhappy at work, but damn't be adult. This is the longest job he's ever held at four years and he's 44 years old. Everyone has times their job sucks. But you don't go quitting WITHOUT HAVING ANOTHER JOB!!!!! We have a car payment, a truck payment, a motorcycle payment, child support, house payment.

We just bought a $600 dog!!!! Do you think I would have done that if I knew Joe was gonna pull this?

I'm sick

[lucky 2.0]

Hubby quit his job

Oh shit! That sucks. Last I hear you were going to be the one quiting! I think Joe is in the doghouse big time.

[bald headed old guy]

Hubby quit his job

If I quit a job without talking to mrs. BHOG first, I would not need another job, I'd need an undertaker..oh, wait, if there is no body to be found, you don't need an undertaker.
That sucks, seriously.
BHOG

[Heavenly]

Hubby quit his job

Is he home yet?
Can you talk before going and buying any alcohol?
It will be a bad night if you add alcohol into the mix !

Good Luck
Heavenly

[Cinders]

Hubby quit his job

Hart,

OMG, yes, I would be totally pissed. Totally.

His ass better be ready to go get a new job pronto.

My hubby hates his job, too, which is why he went to part time and started school. All this after much discussion and bill planning with me, btw, because we are ONE.

sigh

I do agree, though, Hart, I know this will be difficult because Joe is very apt to be home tonight guzzling the beer. DON'T do it. If you do, alcoholic fighting will ensue. You know this.

Be the grown up, as you have been all along, apparently, but talk to him like a peer, not a parent. Ask him what his plan is and when he is going to implement it.

I am so sorry, Hart. I truly am. :l

Love,
Cindi

[MDBiker]

Hubby quit his job

I'm sorry hart. I agree it is something that needs to be talked about. I don't understand quitting a job without having a job. It sucks.

bear

[Beaches]

Hubby quit his job

Hart, that is so sad. He needs to find a new job pronto. He can not just quit a job when he has a child. Start selling his shit!

[hart]

Hubby quit his job

Thanx all. Joe just called. It not only quit via e-mail, he left w/o even talking to his boss. Sigh. He said he'd take any job and has already went and got an application for Lowes. I told him I had talked w/the boss and he can give me some OT.

He's home and Heavenly, he's already drinking and bought beer for me too.

He said he would actively look for work.......he did this once before....before we were married......but he had several thousand in his own account and paid all his expenses then.

I feel sick. That's my way, I may get angry then the anger seems "wrong" and it turns to depression. I feel numb. I feel sick. He already bought me beer..........yes, I'm going to drink. Yes that is not mature, I'm thinking of leaving work early..........no, I won't. I'll work the next three hours and go home. I feel the depression settling in. At least it's depression with a definite cause.....

I'm sorry, I'm not my normal self....whatever that is....

[Niblet]

Hubby quit his job

hmmm..... I don't get it either... without having a means to make payments.. Life sometimes sucks, and he had better get used to that... I'm so sorry Hart, I'd be soo pissed I'm fuming just READING this !!! Please, I agree though, alcohol mixed with this won't be good... He had better bust his ass to get a job at 8:00 am tomorrow morning... Tonight for him had better be brushing up on his resume, and ironing his own damn shirt for his job hunt tomorrow. He had better pack himself a lunch to take along in the morning, cause this may take awhile and he darn well cannot afford to go out for a burger !!! Sorry Hart xxx

[Niblet]

Hubby quit his job

we were posting at the same time Hart..are you sure that you want to drink when you get home... Is Joe sabatoging you? Does he miss his "drinking buddy" when you refrain from drinking? We are all here for you... xxx Please don't go into depression.. you do not deserve that... you cannot control this situation by crawling into a hole, it won't serve you well xxx deep breaths...breath...

[Beaches]

Hubby quit his job

Hart, just know that you are OK this is not your fault and he made a very bad decision for his family. I am glad to hear that he's looking for a new job.

[trixietrack]

Hubby quit his job

yuck! sorry hart that is awful. it puts so much pressure on you. the way he quit is absolutely irresponsible, I do not understand how someone can do something like this.

please be strong.......

MD your avatar is uuuh pretty darned graphic I must say.

Trix

[Shikakai]

Hubby quit his job

Ouch... yea, that's not good... I quit my last job too without having another, but I don't have a lot of financialy responsibility, much less a spouse and children (and a dog).

Hopefully, he finds something soon... never good to make life-altering decisions without consulting your mate first. It's not just him that depends on his job...

[Shikakai]

Hubby quit his job

Beaches;298510 wrote: Hart, that is so sad. He needs to find a new job pronto. He can not just quit a job when he has a child. Start selling his shit!

Heehee :H

Sorry you're going through this, Hart... did the boss say he could take some time off?

[Suzanna]

Hubby quit his job

Hart

I am so sorry to hear this, and I know exactly what you are going through. Last year hubby lost a job in the depressing construction industry. Then he got another, they let him go after a week, he SAID they didn't like that he didn't get off the machine (runs heavy equipment), but he had complained the machine had no air conditioning, so I was doubtful. Then there was another job, that was 2 weeks. Big gaps in between, not much being done around the house till I complained, then he took 2 months to paint the front of the house and patch. Then he got another job far away and complained about gas, and I said, let's trade vehicles since I work closer and gas $ would be saved. Now he is complaining again, I can never relax. Cars and house are in my name because he filed bankruptcy (not me) and he cannot get loans thank TPTB. If any of your vehicles are in his name, hand him the loans and say, this is your responsibility, I'M not paying these. Take back the dog, if you can stand to. I am sending you much love!! Suz