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    PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

    I was on chat the other night and got into a conversation about PMS and how it affects not only our moods but our relationship with AL. I have been dealing with PMS for so long that I consider it part of my personality. I use to hate it when I was young, 27, and didn?t suffer from it, when I?d hear other woman talk about it. I use to think it was an excuse to be in a bad mood and quite frankly a bitch???..
    I have for a long time known that during this time of month my binges became more frequent. I crave AL as some would chocolate. I kept a daily tracker and would look at it sadly when I saw that I was getting close to that time, because I knew what was coming. As if that isn?t bed enough I have to deal with all the depression. This is when I hate my life, want to leave my husband, quit my job and join the French Foreign Legion. My PMS lasts anywhere from 5 to 7 days. I have been treated with anti-depressants for this ( which only made me drink more and become more depressed! ) have been to a nutritionist who helped me by giving me mega doses of Vit B?s 3 times a day, acupuncture, you name it, I?ve done it, and as I said, I accept it now as part of my personality, but why? And if THAT isn?t bad enough, I?m going to be 49 going through ? the change? and having trouble sleeping, getting forgetful, and have little patience. I must have been a REALLY bad person in my previous life to be given all this. Must be overdrawn in my Karma Bank account!
    So my question is, what do you all do? Do any of you suffer like me? Has anything changed in the last few years, new meds, herbs, chants? I can?t tell you how happy I was to find someone else in chat, to chat with.
    Thanks for listening.

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    PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

    I know so many women who suffer from PMS (temporary insanity) I try to be compassionate and understand. it must be awful.

    I get it but only mildly I am sorry you have to go through that ordeal every month. Jeez it is a curse....
    You can't turn a pickle into a cucumber

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      PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

      Hi RN, Have you read Dr. Christian Northrups book, Womens Bodies Womens Wisdom. I haightly recomend this book. I think every household should own it. She speaks a lot about womens sycles and what can be done to eliviate or at least, balance the symptoms. Dr. Northrop is also an advocate for using natural means in the area of womens health!

      For those women here that are past this phase and into menopause, she has a fabulous book called The Wisdom of Menopause. It too if full of information and encouragement.
      A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes~Cinderella

      AF 12/6/2007

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        You MUST check out womentowomen.com!
        http://www.womentowomen.com/default.aspx
        They take a natural approach to changing womens health. The clinic was founded by two women doctors over 20 years ago.
        ~Laura

        Insanity
        : doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results................... Albert Einstein

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          PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

          Finally, yup, I'm with you. Severe cycles too. Cramps so bad I have a hard time breathing through them until they pass. Whew, fun times, huh? But I've noticed they have gotten better since I quit drinking. Not good, just a little better. But I've traded the bitching at a drop of a hat to the crying at a drop of a hat. I find that Pamerin does help.

          Any btw, I think the men folk should read this! lol Some of them just don't get it and I think a little education is in order.

          This reminds me of a story when my niece was little (may be 5 yrs old). Her mom was upset at her for something. My sister was telling her that she really needed to behave because "mommy was having a bad day, needed to get some sleep and she had PMS. I just can't take anymore, blah, blah". My niece innocently looks up and says "Mommy, what's PMS?". My brother was in the room and realized my sister had no idea what she was going to tell her, so he blurts out really quick, "PMS stands for poor mommys sick!". We still laugh at that one! Although it's not that funny, is it ladies?

          Feel better, Finally. Sending you hugs, hun.

          Love, Me
          :l
          Alcohol is simply the device between success and failure.

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            #6
            PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

            Thanks Laura for the link. I am going to check it out.

            RN, I can relate to you 100%. I used to think PMS was a BS excuse women used to be a bitch and get attention. That is until I gave birth. Since that time I have had THE worst PMS. Most months I am filled with such rage that I want to run off and hide and spare my family. I can say the last two months have been much better and the only thing I have really changed is being consistent with taking my 5HTP at night and SAMe in the morning; both help increase serotonin and I think that has helped.

            And I agree Dr. Northrup's books are excellent resources.
            I'm really easy to get along with once people learn to worship me

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              #7
              PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

              Wow! , thanks for the info. I will definately get the books.

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                time bomb!

                I was such a mess i had to have this procedure: endometrial ablation: ablation of the endometrium for the treatment of abnormal uterine bleeding during this time i fell completely apart..figured a life change was here, it was.. All the stressors in life came down like a :bomb:..could not sleep, burnt right out. bleeding to death, tired, low iron, drinking, I said i cannot take this anymore...now 6 months have past..its all behind me now.

                For you RN...i hope you don't go through a major break down like i did. Woman problems and alcohol are NOT a good combination for some. Just being a woman is so damn difficult...never mind the hormones..we all have to go through it...just wanted to share..if you have any questions let me know..

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                  #9
                  PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

                  Lushy, I sincerely hope your PMS does not coincide with the Seattle meet up.
                  Sometimes I wonder...."Why is that frisbee getting bigger?"...and then it hits me.

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                    #10
                    PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

                    is pms the reason why native americans had a special hut for the women during that time?
                    You can't turn a pickle into a cucumber

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                      #11
                      PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

                      KateH1;303870 wrote: Hi RN, Have you read Dr. Christian Northrups book, Womens Bodies Womens Wisdom. I haightly recomend this book. I think every household should own it. She speaks a lot about womens sycles and what can be done to eliviate or at least, balance the symptoms. Dr. Northrop is also an advocate for using natural means in the area of womens health!

                      For those women here that are past this phase and into menopause, she has a fabulous book called The Wisdom of Menopause. It too if full of information and encouragement.
                      yep this book is fantastic and full of excellent info. I found in the 90's and to me it's been a great help I highly recommend it
                      You can't turn a pickle into a cucumber

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                        #12
                        PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

                        well...

                        must say..i'm so happy things are shut off ... no more drinkie or bloody. i feel great and no further investments in Woodbridge & Overnighters! :H

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                          #13
                          PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

                          I'm glad things finally shut off too! What a PAIN!!!!
                          Noelle sez "Do want you like, like what you do. Life is Good."

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                            PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

                            Hi RN,
                            I'm so glad you posted this thread. It is one of those things that you think i must be the only one that suffers this bad but by the sounds of it there are many women that are in the same boat. I cant tell you how much it effects my mood and the outcome like yours is intensive cravings for al. :upset: I have also tried alot of treatments and nothing seems to help me. I keep a journal and dread the one or two weeks ahead of me. Temporary insanity YES i couldnt have said it better.
                            Since i have been af (most of the time) i have had worse PMS is anyone else experiencing this? i put it down to feeling more emotion???
                            I am going to see a natropath and find out if herbs will help balance out my hormones and will keep you posted on the outcome. In the meantime it is a matter of putting up with something that is totally out of my control.
                            I am the author of my life.

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                              #15
                              PMS......male MWO-ers need not read.

                              I know that guys should'nt reply to this thread, But you ladies find your way into our guy threads. PMS ( Piss & Mone Syndrome ) Is very hard on us guys. Please take your medication ! IAD ! LOL " This is a public service anoucement "
                              ?Be who you are and say what you feel because
                              those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.?
                              Dr. Seuss

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