In a fix...

[Palatia]

I'm kind of in a fix... looking for a job, biz has been slow but thankfully a few orders are coming in. I've had to 'borrow' money from my parents for my son and I to eat. Obviously I can't afford any of the things of the program here.. I do have good supps though. Somehow I've done Really well most of the time with cravings and the desire to not drink.. except for Friday nights.

This week I had a job interview for a job I really want.. I met with the Pres and COO and after 45 minutes, the Pres called in two more people. They were really nice but it was nerve-wracking to suddenly be talking to 4 people, instead of two. I was told they hoped to make a decision by Friday... Friday came and went with no phone call. I had thought the way things went that I was sure to have an offer... nothing. I caved last night and of course regret it this morning. I have to get past the Friday night thing... Saturdays are easier than Fridays for some reason.

There is still Monday to hear on the job but I'm sure somone will be starting on Monday. The COO insisted he would call either way..

I Really need a job and steady income.. I'm tired of living this way. At least I dont' have to feel guilty about spending the 'borrowed' money on AL.

I guess it's even worse when you're 46, just got a degree and having to rely on someone else just to EAT!! Well what's worse I guess is my dad was just in the hospital and it looked like he wouldn't be able to work anymore..then we'd all be in a fix! Thankfully a pulmonary specialist told them yesterday that it looks like asthma, not emphysema, so it's much more treatable.

I just needed to rant and have a short visit on the pity pot.. and hope that someone has some encouragement and/or suggestions. Mostly I don't keep a pity pot in the house.. lol.

[betty boop]

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Palatia, feel free to rant here whenever you want, after all thats what friends are for .........

Firstly I want to say that I'm pleased for your dad's news, that must have been a worry .........

Stay strong, a job will come along, and you will proud of yourself for dealing with it without constant drinking ..........

Big BB hugs for you .....:l:l:l

[greeneyes]

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You can have my job. Seriously, stuff happens and maybe the team couldn't decide within the time frame expected. They run a business and have to maintain that before all else. Please try to not let self doubt get ahold of you. You see what it does. Keep your chin up and know you did the best in the situation. Trust in higher power that if you do not get this job, it was for a good reason. Hang in there!

(shut up Noelle,you know I have one left but I had to try to help here)

[dexterhead]

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Hi Palatia, I recently went through a long job hunt and went through that constantly. they rarely call as soon as they say they will .. often I wouldn't EVER hear back from places, even if I interviewed!!! I was astonished at the lack of courtesy. You just have to develop a thick skin .. I know it's hard and it sucks .. but it still sounds like you have a good shot at this one.
One thing that helped me was the boards at Monster.com. You just have to register, it's fast, and then you can ask all kinds of questions about interviewing, etc. etc., and get many responses, some of them from people with a lot of experience in interviewing and hiring. It was so helpful, and you also see all the people in the same boat as you (a bit like here ). best of luck ! and glad your dad is going to be OK:h:h

[LVT25]

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Palatia--You have done really well since you've been here. Try to think positive and keep your chin up!

[Cinders]

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Palatia,

I agree with everyone above.

I am so proud of you for doing so well under the circumstances. Job hunting is decidedly difficult and produces a lot of feelings: anxiety, self-doubt. The worry about money can't be helping.

You know a good job will come along, you just don't know when.

I also agree with BB, Thank God it was such good news about your daddy!! What a blessing for him.

Hang in there, girl, chin up and keep on smilin'

Love,
Cindi
XIX

[Palatia]

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Thanks for the encouragement all! I do pat myself on the back for every day AF.. and if I can do it without meds or other crutches... then I have more reason to be proud..

I know I have a brain.. I just wish someone would take me up on using it besides me! lol.

[Not Happy Hour-Happy Life]

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Palatia-
I think Voices posted this link before, but have a look here:

NARMS: National Association for Retail Marketing Services

The cool thing is that there are a lot of different offerings. No, this may not be the career you are looking for, but the needs are immediate so you can start tomorrow, and there's no long term commitment, so when your dream job comes up, you CAN start on Monday. And one last thing... the money is green, dear .

And about the "Friday" deadline- maybe Ace can pipe in here from his viewpoint, but in my experience, the deadline isn't normally the deadline. If there are three qualified people at the end of the interviews, then perhaps the company is now checking references, or perhaps the "boss" really has to get approval from someone else... but to say that doesn't make him the bossman anymore, you know? Keep the faith, P.

Much love, and Florida sunshine to you... :beach: :rays:!

[Palatia]

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Thanks for the link Patty... interesting..

Well I was talking to the 'boss' man.. the President lol..

I can still hope for the job I guess.. but it's a little discouraging at this point... I've had MANY interviews over the last few months.. all say they will call.. so far none have but did get the form letter from one... It really is inconsiderate of any of them not to do what they say they'll do..

[Not Happy Hour-Happy Life]

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Second, is this one better? No, it wasn't me... but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night!
This avatar is a restaurant in Gainesville, Georgia.... I giggle at this one everytime.

P- Pres also has wife to discuss with...

And of course, there is a great saying, "I was looking for a job when I got this one"... you'll find the right one, P.
Be patient and bold and it will find you. :heart:

[Mags]

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Palatia

You're under such stress and doing so very well. I know times are tough now, but I hope you are very proud of yourself. You should be.

You have a degree. A good job will come along. These people do tend to take their sweet time letting us sit on pins and needles.

Just keep hanging in there, sweetie, Keep hanging tough. Keep hanging with us. Things will get better as long as you continue to keep AL out of your life.

[Mags]

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Me Hung Low

Do NOT eat there!!!!!!

I don't even want to think about the chicken.

:H

[KateH1]

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Hi Palatia,
First of all congratulations on getting your degree. That is a great accomplishment! In todays job market a Bachelors degree is almost the norm on any resume. Experience and a proven track record, counts almost equaly when seeking a job. Did you do any type of internship while attending college? I have no idea what your degree is in, or what types of jobs you are applying for. By the way, I don't expect you to post your answers! These are just some questions to ask yourself!

It sounds like you have been out of the work force for a while now. Are you seeking jobs in areas that you have experience and a proven track record? Does your experience as well as your skills match your degree? Many women, leave the work force in order to raise children etc. and then re-enter several years later. During that time, they volunteer etc. though unpaid, it is real experience. This can be used on a resume.

There is a great website called, womenforhire.com it is chock full of very valid and real advice for women of all ages, wanting to enter, re-enter or change careers. You might like to check it out.

One more thing, Greene is right, quite often employers do not get back to you when they say they will. Many times, they only correspond with the top one or two applicants. This is really more about time and resources rather than rudeness on the part of the company. At the end of the interview, you might ask if you may contact them in a week or so, to find out where they are in the hiring process. Get a name and a number to call.

Good luck to you on your job search and most of all your sobriety!

Kate

[Palatia]

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Thanks Kate..

Actually, I've been in sales as in independent contractor for the last 12 years.. I'm really tired of that... never knowing how much I'm going to make. I'm looking for more stable income.. degree is in Biz/Marketing (in other words... management and secondary in marketing)...

I also have education in accounting and worked in accounting before sales.. so I'm a good all around administrator I think. That's really what I'm going for now... stability.

[bald headed old guy]

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Palatia,
I hope this coming week brings you good news! Right now, I am gald you are still on here and working so hard on staying AF, knowing how good it can be.
Take Care...keep us posted..
Thinking about you!
BHOG