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[Determinatrix]

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debruce -

We all feel that way at some point.

I suggest you visit this thread https://www.mywayout.org/community/f1...ller-9308.html

You will see one's person take on feeling exactly the way you feel and the thread has 1000's of post now.

Also, use smileys! :anyone::hello::imwaiting::imlonely::anyonethere:
Dx

[Accountable for Me]

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Oh.... and yah, the time zone differences plays a big part of who is on, etc...

Keep your chin up! Don't take it personally!

[Guest]

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I often feel like that too, that I must come across a little wierd or opionated or something but I reason that im just being paranoid when I think like that .I reakon the real reason is that I dont post as much as most full timers here and therefore not letting people into my life as much as others do. They are a nice group here and you are a part of it!

[betty boop]

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Debruce I've only just spotted this, soooo sorry that you feel that way .....

I have been here ages and still get paranoid if no-one replies ........

Chin up chuck!!!!!

Love & Hugs, BB xx

[AMELIA]

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Hey Debruce,
I think we all can get 'lost' in a thread sometimes....I think it's just something that happens.
I am sorry that you felt rejected or ignored (I am sure no one on this site would intentionally do that).
I look forward to reading and replying to more of your posts.
Amelia
x

[memarcie]

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Just wanting to say hi Debruce!

[Breez]

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I just looked to see what threads you started & the # that responded and it seems like a fair average number. I usually got the same # whenever I started threads. Some days people want to post, other days people just want to read. You really can't take things personally around here.

[bestlifeldms]

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Hi Debruce-

I have been here since July 2006. I still get my feelings hurt when people don't acknowledge my response to a thread. I will put my heart and soul into my supportive response and BAM! - in the next posting, the originator of the thread will be thanking specific individuals for their reply, but not me. :upset:

:H Not to worry! Very understandable and forgivable. I think this has to do with stronger personal relationships that have been developed in chat, PM's and over time. I'm not here very much, and rarely in chat, so, it makes sense. Give it time. What is the old saying, "To have a good friend, you first have to be a good friend." It may take going out of your way to respond to a despirate thread with a PM to that individual. This means alot when someone is really struggling.

I hope you can see by everyone's response that we would not purposefully ignore or hurt you. We are all one, struggling with the same issue, here to support one another!

:h Best

[lorisunshine]

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Hello Debruce,
I have been her since spring of 06 and have little to add to what Bestlife has so eloquently expressed in her post (Best I'm not trying to suck up to you - lol).
However, I do know how you feel. Once in a while my nose gets out of joint, when the brass buttons on my Ego Frock don't get polished occasionally with a reply or acknowledgement from other members. I tried to figure it out: I don't have the time to come here everyday and when I finally jump into a thread, everybody has gone on to something else - so I guess timing is everything. And how can they not like me, I am soft, cuddly and cute - and so are you.

I hope this helps kiddo.
Hugs Lori:h:h:h

[bestlifeldms]

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Oh Sunshine, please suck up to me, please! ray: On second thought I would rather you rub up against my ankle. I miss my kitty!:upset:

:h Best

[lucky 2.0]

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No one asked but I am happy to give my opinion!:H

I view the site as being all about information. I love the Research section regarding meds, supplements, accupuncture, etc. Any relationships that may form are completely secondary to the information we can all benefit from to improve our lives.

Just my humble opinion and good wishes to all.

[YoungAtHeart]

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Oh lucky, you know you joined because you heard about the terrific network of girlfriends you'd find here! Especially Lushy.

Oh, and DeBruce, sometimes people will get into conversations with each other that have nothing to do with your thread at all. That can really be annoying. In that case you can use the:hijacked: smilie.

At any rate, :colorwelcome:

YoungAtHeart

[Thankful]

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HI, debruce.

Very brave of you to speak up. That says a lot about your character. Good job.

Hang in there. We are here even if the time zone doesn't always make it seem so.

Love, Me
:l

[Reenie]

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debruce: How is your dog doing? My sweet little guy is lying down next to me as I write this. -Reenie

[debruce]

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Hi Everyone,
Firstly thanks for all the replies. You guys are the best. I was obviously feeling a little down in the dumps and feel heaps better today. Thank You!!!!

My little dog is great, she has just had her tea and I have taken her for a nice long walk along the beach this afternoon.

I think I will check out the antabuse with my Dr. Makes sense to not have to make the decision while I can work on my mental state. I guess it is 1 less thing to get in a tizz about.

Thanks again
xxx