hit in the head with a brick...

[treeman]

I have been on this board for a while, usually just reading and learning.

Some of you know the stress that I have experienced the last 7 months (separation). Well all of that is starting to peak.

I have found who my true friends are over this time. Now I can count them on one hand. This has been exhilerating and scary. Not really thinking about AL anymore (he never was my friend anyways), really enjoying life in a way that I didn't before. Stifling existance is over.

Anyways, one of my new friends, a woman, has been very supportive the last 2 months. We have a tremendous amount in common, much more than I had with my ex. She cares about me both physically and mentally.

Long story, short: I was having a few beers at a friend's house (male), hitting some golf balls and bsing. Woman phones unexpectedly. Immediately knows that I had been drinking; which I admitted (I was moderating nicely and in control). The conversation was fine, but afterwards I felt like poo. I left the party, went home and worked in the gardens.

I realized last night that I can be with great people and make friendships without AL. DUHHH. I never want to hurt anyone again. This woman is very special to me; and we have a lot of things to work out. We have had a glass of wine together over dinner. I don't even know if I finished mine.....that is her affect on me.

I want to continue on this correct path. I actually like myself today.

Thanks for listening....

[tlrgs]

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thankx for sharing . good luck, peace and god bless

[hart]

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Sounds like you not only realized what effect drinking had on you, even moderate drinking but what effect this woman had on you. Hit with a brick, indeed!

I believe in you hon!

[betty boop]

hit in the head with a brick...

Treeman, all the best in your relationship with this special lady .......

You deserve it .......

BB xx

[myra]

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This could just be the best thing tree. Just the best. Good luck and glad to see you on the boards again.

Myra

[livingfree]

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It sounds to me like you WANT to have a clear mind when you are with her! What a great beginning to a relationship!