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[hart]

Someone has said I am dumping on you all, then pretending to be "sweet". So I guess I will stop posting. I don't want to be a negative influence. I guess I'll come back when life is grand, because I can't pretend it is now. I truly respect this forum and most people on it. But if I am doing harm to others, I must go. Peace all.

[Cinders]

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WTF???

Hart, you are one of my best friends here. Do not go, do not leave, do not let one person affect you like that!!

Never saw you dumping on anyone? I am totally confused and now angry as hell.

In the last few weeks, several people have been pm'd by someone that has upset them.

That person or people need to post publicly if they have an issue with any of us and not hide behind pms and count on people to be hurt and whatever this person or people are striving for.

Hart, I will personally come to Washington and get your butt back onto MWO.

We all love you. :h

Cindi
XXXI

[LVT25]

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Hart--no , don't even think about leaving!! One person's opinion doesn't mean you should quit posting. i think it's time we knew who is "picking" on the members here!

Palatia had problems last week, and now you.........

[tlrgs]

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hey hart.. please dont go anywhere. you have as much rights here as us all do here .
without some negetive .you wouldnt have the positive . so just keep on doing what you are doing .
to me i like your posts. so what if someone disagree with you are saying. its their problem not yours.
peace and god bless and stay around please

[Cinders]

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Hart,

I just read the post that upset you.

I am sorry. You are sweet, you are kind and you belong here just like the rest of us.

You have been very supportive of me when I was falling flat on my face.

Others stated the same points as Kate a little more tactfully and are giving you good advice.

I sure hope you stay with us and I really hope you figure out how to deal with all this that is going on.

I love you and do not want you to leave or quit posting. I want you to figure out how to get where you need to be to be happy. :l:l

Love,
Cindi
XXXI

[Captnjack]

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HART
please stay its just you seem to give your partener husband so much lee way. some of us dont understand that. Shit girl how could you do harm???? You are so straight up you dont bullshit you are one of the most honest people I have ever come across and on this site. Please hart stay.
Sorry capt

[disapprovingcat]

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Oh Hart,

I hesitated posting in that thread because it was getting negative and I didn't want to add to it - I thought you were looking for a hand and tried to offer it. I apologize if it made you upset.

Please don't go, we all need each other. It's hard on a message board to get across one's intent when you only have words and emoticons. I remember how upset you were when your husband quit unexpectedly and the last thing I wanted was to make that worse.

DC :l

[nancy]

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Hey Hart

Don't leave the site for f***** sake! not unless you do it for yourself.

Ths is a place for venting. I really don't understand all the criticism of late.

I hope you stick around.

Nancy

[LVT25]

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I found it. This person was out in the open being honest at least, and knew it would hurt. Perhaps it's tough love, I don't know. I think the majority of us here are co-dependents, or we wouldn't be here. Sometimes we are just "venting" and not asking for advice or opinions. I hope this can be resolved quickly, but I don't think the answer is for you to leave, Hart. You said you agreed with some of the opinions, take what you know you should and leave the rest!

[Ripple]

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look to the sky.

wot is the problem! we are here to talk about it! have you tried Greenie's pants line. lets see..You have been doing so good..i had a mental turn`a`round myself last week! I said thats IT! i am going to sleep at nite...NO to MEN if your the man is infecting your thinking.. to HELL with everything that bothers ME! Love to you..STOMP those emotions away and be FREE...XXOO its coming..you will see. :h

[betty boop]

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Hart I truly do feel for you ......

Please don't go .........

BB xx

[nancy]

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Hi again Hart

I just read your other thread to see where you were coming from.

It sounds to me like someone made a point about codependency, which is a fair point to bring up with you, but did it in a very counter-productive and insulting manner.

It's a shame because maybe you could benefit from talking to someone about codependency. But you certainly were not "dumping" on people in bringing the issue up. This site is often about having a safe place to vent and get advice, then give advice too.

[myra]

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Hart

You have been very helpful to me on chat. I have not read the upsetting post so I cannot reference that. But you are a plus to the site. Stay.

Love,

Myra

[hart]

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Thanx everyone. Maybe I am just tired. I am co-dependent re: alcoholism. No doubt about it. I am also depressed about my situation and I'm tired. I'm tired of biting my words back with Joe. I'm tired of feeling guilty at the drop of a hat......not Joe's fault, always have been like that......maybe my childhood history, who know, who cares at this point. I just want a break from........maybe myself, who knows.

Anyway, I am going to not post for a few days and see how it goes. There are some valid points made, and I am not unaware of them myself. You guys are very wise I'm feel vulnerable, maybe that's what this is all about, being too sensitive. Well, see you in a few, take care.

[dexterhead]

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Hart, please stay ... :hI do agree that this should be a place for venting.:l:l