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[greeneyes]

Greenie feels bad having took drunk the other day. No progress in the hole, Wierd stuff happening with hubby and you can't deal properly with life issues when you are not clear headed. Duh. Had to speak to office person about "my problem" and it just makes one hang their head in shame. I even had to tell the gym guy I took drunk and forgot to show up. I know there are some who will chide me thinking I am not trying, so go ahead. You know, the shame and guilt is really enough.

[Suzanna]

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Sorry Greenie, that you are finding it challenging these few days. You are way better than you used to be, don't you believe that? You should, I sure do. Tomorrow will be a better day. Stay the course with us! :h Suz

[gelgit]

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Beautiful, beautiful green eyes, I wish I could reach across the ether and hug you:h:h g.

[Popeye]

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Hi Greeneyes,
No chiding here.
Keep trying. That's all the rest of us are doing.

[tlrgs]

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like the saying goes . you cant fail as long as you try. so keep on going doing your best .
so smile happy toes

[out]

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I think you are...

alright regardless of whether you have drank. I am learning to think that I am alright whether or not I have drank.

A friend of mine once told me "a hangover is a built in self-punishment mechanisim and there is no need to do any more to yourself". Good advice I thought. Take care.

[Breez]

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ok-here it goes...just kidding~these are things that kept me going. The past is gone-move on. We can't change it. There is no reason to be ashamed. Yesterday is done. But we can change tomorrow. Nothing will change unless unless you change it. Change that outlook & tomorrow will look better. Nobody said this was going to be easy. What you put in is what you get out.

I wish you the best.....never give up.

[Guest]

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It never seems to be just one problem to deal with it, does it? I'm hoping for the best for you greeneyes... just keep trying and don't give up.

[Cinders]

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Greenie,

Lots of hugs from here. Hike those big girl pants up and keep on keepin' on.

You know you will deal better with your partner's problem if you stay sober. Think about that. You can't help him if you aren't there for him.

Lots of love and strength to you.

Love,
Cindi

[Ripple]

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Yup..

when you live with a monster and work in a hole, sober is the way to go! it beats being a bowling ball. :H