I leave in the morning for Lenair. Hubby just told me he is filing for separation tomorrow. Ho boy, I am going to show up with some wierd energy for Rhonda to deal with. Oh well. He was having hypnosis from someone from his narc anon group. I know nothing of her credentials. What will be will be, but I will be well. I don't want to be left here in this house for a year with all his mess. But he refuses to pay me what he owes me. With that money I could buy a house and educate myself for another job, which I a most certainly going to need. Gackkkk!
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Greeny, sweetheart, this is for you and for you only. He does not know what he is missing once you come back. Let the chips fall where they may and embrace the experience. Trust me there is acres and acres of crisp, fresh delicious beans in that field and you are it. Let me hug you and hold you and I will think about you with all the intensity that I can muster.
I love you Greenie.
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Hey Greenie,
I'm glad you're going to Lenair so that you can deal with all that "weird" energy. You will get back in touch with the real you and will know how you want to deal with it.
At any rate, I am sending you many cyber-hugs, and best wishes. I just don't know what to say about your husband at this point...
Good luck at Lenair. Without the booze, you will be able to deal with this much better.AF as of August 5th, 2012
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I am so sorry that you had that dumped on you right now!!! dont let it get in the way of you getting healed.Hubby will see you thru different eyes when you come back.I think you will see you thru different eyes as well.Healthy,Happy,Sober and ready to build the live that you want...Be safe and get well....LOL..EviesigpicEyes on the PRIZE, a SOBER Future !!!Comment
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Greenie,
Get well, honey. Get well.
Love,
CindiAF April 9, 2016Comment
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Oh Greenie. I just PM'd you, then I read this post. I am so sorry. You have been going thru such hell.:l:l
Hugs, Kittyhead:boxer: Get the hell out of my house, Al, you worthless bastard!!Comment
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greeneyes - you are going to be fine - because you have a lot of love from everyone going with you. sending you huge amounts of strength and support and love in abundance...
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Greenie,
You have to be freaking kidding me. You go to Lenair, get well...F him!Forever loved, forever missed Papa BearComment
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Greenie, wishing you all the best at Lenair......probably perfect timing for you to get away for a bit as well
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How many time can someone be shouted at in one day? I have not packed nor gone to visit my daddy and boy I can't wait for that scotch.sigpic
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Greenie,
PACK and go see your Daddy. Go stay in a hotel for the night. You dont need this stress right now.Forever loved, forever missed Papa BearComment
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Greenie,
A new and better life awaits you and it starts tomorrow! How cool is that?
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I think your husband is scared about you getting sober and starting on a new life, leaving him behind. His actions seem to really be reactions to what he is afraid is happening. So just keep your (green)eyes focused straight ahead, and put one foot in front of the other... you are on your way, and nothing can stand in you way.Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life... And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
Steve Jobs, Stanford Commencement Adress, 2005
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Beaner - "what we fear the most seldom ever happens". Lay all of this aside for now, and get VERY excited about your trip, and deal with all of this when you are back. I believe you are going to be of a different mind set after you return. I will keep you in my prayers little bean.AF since Jan. 1, 2008 .... It all began right here
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Greens......I totally agree with Beatle. Every. Single. Word.
I've got your back........ :h:h:hNoelle sez "Do want you like, like what you do. Life is Good."Comment
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