How To Find Out WHY
I know why
I know why my ex-husband does it. He wants to get "out of his head"-"out of his mind"...there are waaaaay easier ways to do that, and much more pleasurable.
One really easy way is by sleeping-duh.
The problem is that addiction in itself does produce brain-changes & chemical dependancies, so on top of whatever "issues' that someone doesn't want to deal-with, they then have the chemical dependancy.
After being sober for some time, there are triggers, and/or even cravings, I haven't had a drink in years because I decided that it was too dangerous for me to drink around my "drinking-partner", (ex), and every once in awhile, i get the shakes!
Sometimes something happens to set it off, sometimes not, sometimes it lasts a little while, sometimes it goes-on for a couple days.
Still-I don't drink, out of FEAR. FEAR of what could happen if i get "out of my mind", because that's exactly what could happen.
My ex on the other hand, is looking for that, he wants it, wants it so much that the awful thing that he turns into when he drinks-well, he really doesn't care about that.
If he did--he would tell someone BEFORE he drinks.
So, that's WHY-very simple. You want to get "out of your head".
Because you don't want to deal with your problems.
So, deal with your problems, or don't, but whatever you do, don't try to escape them by drinking, because you won't have any problems if you keep it up, you just won't have a brain.
I know why
I know why my ex-husband does it. He wants to get "out of his head"-"out of his mind"...there are waaaaay easier ways to do that, and much more pleasurable.
One really easy way is by sleeping-duh.
The problem is that addiction in itself does produce brain-changes & chemical dependancies, so on top of whatever "issues' that someone doesn't want to deal-with, they then have the chemical dependancy.
After being sober for some time, there are triggers, and/or even cravings, I haven't had a drink in years because I decided that it was too dangerous for me to drink around my "drinking-partner", (ex), and every once in awhile, i get the shakes!
Sometimes something happens to set it off, sometimes not, sometimes it lasts a little while, sometimes it goes-on for a couple days.
Still-I don't drink, out of FEAR. FEAR of what could happen if i get "out of my mind", because that's exactly what could happen.
My ex on the other hand, is looking for that, he wants it, wants it so much that the awful thing that he turns into when he drinks-well, he really doesn't care about that.
If he did--he would tell someone BEFORE he drinks.
So, that's WHY-very simple. You want to get "out of your head".
Because you don't want to deal with your problems.
So, deal with your problems, or don't, but whatever you do, don't try to escape them by drinking, because you won't have any problems if you keep it up, you just won't have a brain.
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