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    Spouses that support us!

    This has been playing on my mind alot lately, in fact since I have a lovely "chat" with Mr BHOG the other day. The way Mr BHOG speaks about Mrs BHOG just inspires me!!!

    I know there are alot here who have spouses that don't support them and in fact make their AF life very difficult to maintain, my heart goes out to those of you in that situation.

    But there are some very fotunate people who have the love and support of their spouses. I have a wonderful hubby, who although threatened me on more than one occassion to get my sh*t together otherwise he was leaving, did it because he was worried about ME.
    Me being AF has not been easy for him to live with as I have been moody, tearful, grumpy and tired alot of the time. It would be a lot easier for him if I still drank as we have avoided socialising. He is not a big talker but I feel his constant support and approval with the way I have addressed AL in my life.

    Doing 30 days AF has opened my eyes to many things, but most importantly how my family is whole again.

    Thank you Mr BHOG for sharing with me the other day and give Mrs BHOG a huge hug from me as she is one lucky lady.:l

    Have a wonderful weekend and BRING ON SEPTEMBER!!
    "The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it"
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    #2
    Spouses that support us!

    O2M,

    Hubby for sale here...

    Going real cheap today!:H

    I might even throw in his dog!

    (so much for speaking kindly about spouses...LOL) Well, I didn't really say anything mean...yet.
    The only thing worth stealing is a kiss...:flower: zwink:

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      #3
      Spouses that support us!


      I swear, just when I'm ready to give up on the guy he suprises me with a dozen roses!

      :h
      The only thing worth stealing is a kiss...:flower: zwink:

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        Hi all,
        I also have a keeper husband - 27 years and going strong. He retired in April, and maybe I will get a part-time job next year. Looking at the upcoming free time available was one of my motivators for getting drinking under control. Anyway, my hubby doesn't say too much about my drinking, but never questions my decision to have a glass or not. He calls it "my problem", which it is. I know he is very happy for me, and our time together is only improving.
        My life is better without alcohol, since 9/1/12. My sobriety tool is the list at permalink 236 on the toolbox thread under monthly abstinance.

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          #5
          Spouses that support us!

          No support from my hubby but lots of lectures!!!! Ugh !!!!!

          Sammys

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            My hubby actually forgot all about it - but he said, 'Oh yeah I forgot! Well we just need to be prepared with plenty of pop / fizzy drinks!' Man, I've been thinking about my 30 days all month. All go here for Sept 1st (chyort! took some time to type this, took me about 30 corrections)... been on the vodka tonight (aah! another spelling issue)... gonna sort this (you won't / will believe how many times I've corrected this post)... not into typing things wrong and just submitting without looking! I'm a Graphic Designer / Marketing Manager. Lots of Shloer Red Grape... I think...
            Listen for God's voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; He's the one who will keep you on track. Proverbs 3:6 The Message

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              So is hubby on board for September Vlad?

              Mine mentioned in a drunken moment that he would join me but I never actually told him when i started so he never did. But he doesn't have an AL prob but I noticed last month when i was AF that he hardly drank at all..... I'm hoping that by setting the example will rub off on those around me especially my best friend aka ex-drinking buddy.
              "The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it"

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                it is very helpful to have support of your loved one. Good for your hubby for stepping up to the plate.
                Forever loved, forever missed Papa Bear

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