AF Army Sept 28

[kriger]

AF Army Sept 28

He's a very good man with a big drinking problem...I worry about his health.

[startingover]

AF Army Sept 28

kriger;425538 wrote: Starting, My husband is THE most supportive person ever, but I told him in the beginning that he should be prepared for me to slip and to just be there for me if I did. He, above anyone else, understands that part of the journey. He has not had to deal with that yet, but I know he would not bat an eye. He looks at me and sees the strongest woman in the world. I now just wish he would join me. Except for the night of the car incident, he has been drinking much less and I see him popping vitamins. I am hoping for the day he decides to quit...I can't lose sleep over that tho..

i think your hubby and mine are out of the same mold. Mine is incredible too. Also he has been drinking less and feeling better for it. We are very lucky ladies krigs.

[kriger]

AF Army Sept 28

I think so too, Starting.

[cymru]

AF Army Sept 28

Krigs.. It must be so hard striving hard to quit and seeing the benifits while at the same time seeing the one you love drinking so much. Dont even know what id do if in that position. Makes you think about your own problems and put them into perspective.

[kriger]

AF Army Sept 28

I would never leave him, O2M.

[startingover]

AF Army Sept 28

It can be hard, my hub drinks and smokes so in that respect both of my vices are freely available whenever. Watching someone you love ruin their health is not easy and seeing my mum go through lung cancer has made it doubly hard.
But you have to live your own life, you cannot live someone else's for them

[cymru]

AF Army Sept 28

I wrote on my facebook page earlier as my status that 'Cymru cant take it anymore, im sorry' with reference to my relationship with my G/F. An hour later my friend and his wife came over to see if i was o.k, cause they thought it was reference to me trying to top myself! We had a good laugh about it and it was nice of them to care. They were stonned too!! Then, my mate in New Zealand(!) sent me a text asking 'you o.k mate??' Oh the wonders of the net!

[kriger]

AF Army Sept 28

Cy, It is hard. Some days are better than others for him. I have pretty much stopped buying beer for him because he has to drink so much of it to get a buzz (3.2% here in this state). It just costs us a fortune. I am buying white wine so we spend less. Yesterday he asked me to get him one of those big cans (he always drinks bottled beer) of bud light. I did because I know he misses his beer. It's hard to NOT enable.

[kriger]

AF Army Sept 28

O2M, I wasn't upset at all. I do love him even tho he drinks...he has so much charisma....everyone loves my husband.

[startingover]

AF Army Sept 28

cymru;425554 wrote: I wrote on my facebook page earlier as my status that 'Cymru cant take it anymore, im sorry' with reference to my relationship with my G/F. An hour later my friend and his wife came over to see if i was o.k, cause they thought it was reference to me trying to top myself! We had a good laugh about it and it was nice of them to care. They were stonned too!! Then, my mate in New Zealand(!) sent me a text asking 'you o.k mate??' Oh the wonders of the net!

the support network is second to none isnt it?

[kriger]

AF Army Sept 28

By the way, O2M, nothing you could say would ever upset me because I know everything you speak comes from you true caring and love for all of us.

[startingover]

AF Army Sept 28

Do you get on at all with yours one 2?

[startingover]

AF Army Sept 28

My heart goes out to you. It really does. Is there no way you and he could really talk about it?

[lastchance]

AF Army Sept 28

Hello all

Can I join your Army?

[startingover]

AF Army Sept 28

Well hello there LC! You are most welcome! Jump in it is great to see you!