No, was not poor Gary from AA, but I know he wishes it was.lol Shagged me a Hippie.lol
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AF Army 20th October 2008
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AF Army 20th October 2008
OneTwo, here's the deal. You have a heart as big as the world. The way you have put yourself out here for everyone you have met here.... EVERYONE.... is just one example of the way you are. It is a great blessing, and a great curse, to be so ready and willing to give. Part of the "curse" part is something that many people who grew up in alcoholic households do, called "over-functioning." When we were kids, the grownups were feckin drunk and irresponsible, so we stepped up to the plate right away, long before we should have. And we tend to do that all our lives. We know that we are competent to GET IT DONE, whatever it is, and we don't ask anyone to help us, we don't lean on anyone, we don't trust anyone to do it.
So there you are at home day after day, with 5 kids, two of them not even your own!!! And as far as I have seen, knowing you for 3 months now, you never ever demand a day off to yourself, not even when you are sick. Only you can change this pattern. For starters: Only you can return those two children back to their own mother, for example, hard as their mother may have it, maybe it's time to tell her it is time for her to solve her own problems, because you are drowning in your own.
Only you can change this situation, my dear. Sad, and painful, but true.
with love,
wip
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AF Army 20th October 2008
If you are losing track, then I am doing good.lol. Yeah this is the dude that I hit up on MySpace when I was bored on my birthday. He had to console me after the Red Sox lost.LOL"Decide-Which Voice in Your Head you Can Keep Alive" (Shinedown)
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AF Army 20th October 2008
Oh wow!!!! Lucky lucky Sea!! Bout time you had some fun!!
I am off now. Oney, you seem happier I am so pleased. Listen to the Wipster she is very wise. The things she said struck a chord with me too.
Night night all
Sweet dreams
xxxxLiving now and not just existing since 9th July 2008
Nicotine Free since 6th February 2009
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AF Army 20th October 2008
Ok, more info One2. He is very intelligent. He is very deep. He lives in Texas, but came here to be with his Mom when her best friend died. He has three kids. He will probably go back to TX in the near future, which I totally understand. He should be with his kids. I am just his NH buddy for now, and that works for me. I am much too sick of a woman to form an emotional bond with anyone.lol"Decide-Which Voice in Your Head you Can Keep Alive" (Shinedown)
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