AF Army 24th Otober 2008

[A Work in Progress]

AF Army 24th Otober 2008

limers;451444 wrote: wip , do you not see eye to eye with your mum, what age is she?

Limers, she's 88, and she has Alzheimer's. She was always quite "difficult" (outright cruel, sometimes) even before the Alzheimer's. I've spent the last 6 years with her living nearby, making my life a hell as much as she could; and the last 4 months is when things got bad, hospitals and nursing homes etc., but now she's in a very good facility. And she hates it, and hates me as well.

[LookingToGrow]

AF Army 24th Otober 2008

WIP, that is one clever cat you have!

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

LookingToGrow;451448 wrote: What was the blow out about?

"blow-out" was a joke... I just took a nap, instead of doing something wild or exciting!

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

LookingToGrow;451445 wrote: Limers, you feckin' nuts...LOL!!

i try my best ltg...how are you?

[LookingToGrow]

AF Army 24th Otober 2008

I is good Limers! My daughter just emailed me 25 photos to print for my books A granny's dream come true...LOL!!

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

A Work in Progress;451449 wrote: Limers, she's 88, and she has Alzheimer's. She was always quite "difficult" (outright cruel, sometimes) even before the Alzheimer's. I've spent the last 6 years with her living nearby, making my life a hell as much as she could; and the last 4 months is when things got bad, hospitals and nursing homes etc., but now she's in a very good facility. And she hates it, and hates me as well.

ah no wip , it must be the disease , is she one of these stubbern wemon, im sure shes proud as hell of you , have you ever watched the notebook , great film., woman in it has alzheimers.:l

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

Hi checking in from the seaside :-)

Everyone good?

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

LookingToGrow;451450 wrote: WIP, that is one clever cat you have!

No, no, no! A DOG!!! The kitties aren't strong enough to haul plastic storage bins around! Thank God! If they were, we'd all be in danger, I think.

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

Sorry WIP. I misread...LOL!! I have been a dumb ass all day

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

LookingToGrow;451456 wrote: I is good Limers! My daughter just emailed me 25 photos to print for my books A granny's dream come true...LOL!!

im glad your close in the best kind of way , I know she lives miles away , but your close in spirit and heart , yes?
I want to have a relationship like that with my daughters when they grow.

[LookingToGrow]

AF Army 24th Otober 2008

Hi Starting! I am jealous. I love the ocean! Why the hell do I live in TX...LOL!!

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

limers;451457 wrote: ah no wip , it must be the disease , is she one of these stubbern wemon, im sure shes proud as hell of you , have you ever watched the notebook , great film., woman in it has alzheimers.:l

Thanks limers, and yes it is partly the disease... but she's always been very mean and self-centered. She can/could be charming and funny, as well; but with a very cutting sense of "humor" and not much... or at all... interested in the welfare of others. That's just who she is/was. She does love me but in a very self-centered way, more as her possession, and someone to control, and as someone who was supposed to be on hand at all times doing whatever she wanted, than as a human being with my own life to live. She drove my father pretty much to his death.

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

Been fed, been watered and now just chillin' After dinner, FIL said "You want the PC on?" Lovely man

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

S.O. tell us what it's like there!

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AF Army 24th Otober 2008

I dont live near the sea ltg but inlaws do and we are OFTEN here with the dogs its great. So very relaxing