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    #16
    AF Army 5th November 2008

    Hi, everyone! Welcome back, Bandit, and good for you! It feels good to just (mentally) put it behind you, doesn't it?

    wip

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      #17
      AF Army 5th November 2008

      Pretty quiet Army today
      Where is the little leprechaun.
      Great to see you Bandit!!!
      Horrific night at work. Happy to be home. I am very tired, but am waiting for a call from the mortgage co. I would really like to get to bed soon, so that I can get to a meeting tonight before work.
      Mr. Tall man called me last night and emailed me this morning. Feel like a giddy school girl.lol.
      "Decide-Which Voice in Your Head you Can Keep Alive" (Shinedown)

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        #18
        AF Army 5th November 2008

        Hi Everyone,
        Welcome Bandit, Glad to have you in the Army!
        How is everyone tdy?
        Start, I am truly sorry for you job situation. It will be the close of one door and the opening of another door for you, hun. Stay positive and you know we will be here to lend all the support you need!!
        I had interrupted sleep; hubs had neighbor here and they drank til 2am. I just hat that because now he needs more beer for his "day off". We still spend SOO much $$ on beer- it sux. I ordered a 2 month supply of patches yest so when they arrive I will start my quest to quit fags again. I need to do it before I go to Atlanta; the kids don't know I smoke! They don't know about my drinking problem either. When I moved out west 13 years ago I was not drinking; when I have seen them over the last several years I keep my drinking to an odd glass of wine or a beer here and there. Ah, the deceptive alcoholic I was!!! Anyway I won't have to hide anything anymore including the cigarettes, which are harder to stay away from for me. I will be well under the care of my patches and I'll do just fine! I am worried about hubs when I leave for a week. He usually drinks like a fish when I am away and sometimes he drives. If I say something to him about not driving, that will be the kiss of death. He reacts somewhat like a rebellious little child. He is such a good man sober, but while drinking he is such an immature butt head. I wish I knew how to approach him so he would see how childish and dangerous his decisions are when he drinks. The trouble is, none of us would repeat our drunken decisions when we are sober but we have little control of those decisions while drunk....I can't stop him from drinking. It is wearing thin on me and I may start talking about intervention to get him into treatment. It is too hard to do this marriage and solving our big problems with someone who drinks so much. I can't do everything alone and I don't want to do it alone.

        I am so sorry to be venting; you guys are my best friends and I know I can talk here and get things off my chest. Thank you for being my sounding board. Have a great day everyone.

        No pics yet, guys. KriggenBottom
        "People usually fail when they are on the verge of success. So give as much care to the end as to the beginning." Lao-Tzu

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          #19
          AF Army 5th November 2008

          Hi KriggenBottom and Sea!
          :l
          LTG AF January 13, 2011

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            #20
            AF Army 5th November 2008

            Krigs...sorry to hear about your problems with home life. I often think how difficult it would be for me to live at home with someone who drank. I really dont think i could do it. Boy, i cant do it by myself, let alone with someone else who is drinking. I agree that it is time to do something for him and most of all for your own well being, but its diff to know what to do.
            I wish i could say more, but im thinking of you and if i have any inspiring thoughts(!!!!) ill let you know.
            All ready for bonfire night. Lets just hope the rain stays away!!!
            To Infinity And Beyond!!

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              #21
              AF Army 5th November 2008

              Great news about the mortgage sea. Its so relieving to get things like that off your back. Such big triggers for me. Peace of mind is worth so much more than all the materialistic crap that this world thinks makes you happy.
              To Infinity And Beyond!!

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                #22
                AF Army 5th November 2008

                Hey guys! Glad to see everyones up and dealing with today!
                sigpic
                Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
                awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                  #23
                  AF Army 5th November 2008

                  Hey rubes. You feeling o.k? You should be proud of yourself for standing your ground. Its so annoying when people do that.
                  To Infinity And Beyond!!

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                    #24
                    AF Army 5th November 2008

                    I just got a feckin' doc appointment!!!!!!!!
                    :l
                    LTG AF January 13, 2011

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                      #25
                      AF Army 5th November 2008

                      Have a great day LTG. I will catch up with you later
                      "Decide-Which Voice in Your Head you Can Keep Alive" (Shinedown)

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                        #26
                        AF Army 5th November 2008

                        cymru;460804 wrote: Hey rubes. You feeling o.k? You should be proud of yourself for standing your ground. Its so annoying when people do that.
                        Thanks, Cym. Still going over in my mind if I could have done things better or clearer. My last words to her were 'You should be ashamed of yourself'. She thought that was really funny.
                        sigpic
                        Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
                        awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                          #27
                          AF Army 5th November 2008

                          Krigs,
                          I just don't know how you do it. I can't even date a drinker, nevermind live with one. I am really not sure how you should handle it. I will pray for you.
                          "Decide-Which Voice in Your Head you Can Keep Alive" (Shinedown)

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                            #28
                            AF Army 5th November 2008

                            Proud of you Rubes
                            You are on tough soldier
                            "Decide-Which Voice in Your Head you Can Keep Alive" (Shinedown)

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                              #29
                              AF Army 5th November 2008

                              Hi Sea! My appointment is for tomorrow afternoon. I have been working on this since August! I am going back to my old doc that doesn't blame all my medical issues on AL.
                              :l
                              LTG AF January 13, 2011

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                                #30
                                AF Army 5th November 2008

                                Hi Ruby!
                                :l
                                LTG AF January 13, 2011

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