I HAVE A QUESTION

[tlrgs]

WHO ARE YOU DOING THIS FOR
??????

[AAthlete]

I HAVE A QUESTION

Me.

I had to get 'Me' right in order to be of any good to anyone else.

[startingover]

I HAVE A QUESTION

I am doing it for me and no one else

[A Work in Progress]

I HAVE A QUESTION

For all sentient beings, in all times and places.

For the entire deeply interconnected web of being and consciousness.

And that also means: "For me," because that is who I really am. And I believe that that is who you really are, too.

[Montana Mommy]

I HAVE A QUESTION

I love this question.
Im doing this for me. I don't want my kids grown having the same problems as me. I don't want drinking to be one of my big regrets. I want to look back and know I really did the best I could. I also want to be the one who tries to break the alcoholic cycle in my family, and give my kids an extra boost- I'm pretty sure if there's a drinking gene my children will have it like me.
MM

[Bella]

I HAVE A QUESTION

Very good question.....I thought it was for me...but last night I only had 1 beer....I would have had more ...but my husband would have been angry if he had seen me have any at all....so, who am i doing this for!!!! I hope its for me and not for my husband..Bella XXX

[cmhguy3]

I HAVE A QUESTION

three people

ME, MYSELF AND I!

[LookingToGrow]

I HAVE A QUESTION

cmhguy3;461544 wrote: ME, MYSELF AND I!

DITTO THAT!!! :wings:

[Heavenly]

I HAVE A QUESTION

Only for me .... then I can be good for others ....

[Starlight Impress Forever]

I HAVE A QUESTION

tl.........I`m doing this for ME, so that myself and others will enjoy the best of ME.

Am really beginning to like ME.

Star x

[brittzak]

I HAVE A QUESTION

Me first!!!! If I dont want it...it ain't happening. TRUST me!!!

[hart]

I HAVE A QUESTION

To be honest, I am equally concerned about myself and my husband. How alcohol is effecting our living of life and our marriage. I have had few occasions that I felt comfortable for doing something strictly for me, if it effected someone I love negatively.

Thus my dilema of being a co-dependent alcoholic.

[vealees]

I HAVE A QUESTION

I'M doing it for Melisa Etheridge, One day I AM going to meet this Diva and I want to be on my best behavior. I'm better looking when I'm sober anyway!!!

[A Work in Progress]

I HAVE A QUESTION

Hart, I don't think it is at all "co-dependent" to consider the needs of others when we make major decisions about our own health care and our own behavior. Of course the "correct" answer where alcoholism recovery is concerned is always to say that we are doing it only for ourselves. But I think that this idea is promoted so strongly because often, when people say they are doing it for others, what they really mean is that they are doing it to get the approval of others... and that is very shaky ground, indeed, for a recovery program. Considering the well-being of others is another matter, entirely.

wip

[A Work in Progress]

I HAVE A QUESTION

vealees;461608 wrote: I'M doing it for Melisa Etheridge, One day I AM going to meet this Diva and I want to be on my best behavior. I'm better looking when I'm sober anyway!!!

Good one, VL!!! I'll be looking forward to hearing about it! I have a friend who once was her girlfriend... long ago...

wip