I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

[Evie.Lou]

I just spoke to my baby brother and I was completely at a loss for words.Those of you that know me will understand that I am rarely at a loss for words.
He had another Chemo treatment and is so sick.He wants to Stop all treatment.Maybe he is right???? I have been praying chemo would buy him time to get his life in order.
It hurts so much to hear his desperation.I feel so powerless to help him.Please just say kind words of encouragement, right now.I need them so much.

[Waiting for his way out]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

I am very sorry to hear that. Nothing is worse that knowing your loved ones are in pain. Is the chemo not working? or he just had enough?
I hope he hangs in there, sometimes miracles do happen. Best wishes.

[akgirl]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

We don't know each other but my heart goes out to you Evielou.

:l to you
AK

[rubywillow]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

Sweet Evie, I'm sending you warm hugs and hope these few words bring some peace to your heart. Your brother will have to make his decision, and whatever it is, I hope you can support him in it. If he has little time left, it's truly the quality that matters. Let him know how much you love him, as often as you can. It's wonderful at least, given his past, that you have this time to talk and be family again, and that won't be a regret for you one day.I wish I had the words to help you, but this is a heavy, heavy load, that you know you will have to work thru. You will, and just know I'm here for you.
Peace and love, Ruby

[boozehag]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

Thinking of you Evie.
BH

[hart]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

(((Evie)))

Having watched my mom give up on treatment from cancer, I have some idea what you are feeling. All one can do is be there for them, in my mother's case, she was severely depressed before she was diagnosed w/cancer. My thoughts are with you.:l

[kriger]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

Oh Evie,
I wish there was more I could personally do for you! I know your heart is heavy right now. I will pray for your brother and for you and I'm sending as much positive energy as I can muster up your way. Love and lots of hugs, Krigs

[LVT25]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

I'll say some extra prayers tonite evielou! I'm so sorry.

[Cinders]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

Evielou,

Sending thoughts of peace and strength to you and your brother.

May his pain lessen. :l

Love to you,
Cindi

[Soft Heart]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

Sending You Love

Dear Evie

I am sorry to read of your pain and the anxiety you feel for your brother, chemo is so debilitating, painful and sickening and when your'e feeling low its hard to keep up appearances.

Why is he having chemo ?, does he have any Specialist Nurses/Therapists who can support him and also you?

I worked as Palliative Care Nurse ( Symptom control) so if I can help please let me know.

Love, hugs and sloppy wet licks from me and my doggies xxxx

[Michaela]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

Evie,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your baby brother. I am very close to my brother and just can't imagine what you are going through. I lost my Dad to this wicked illness and I know how painful it can be for everyone. The best thing I did though, was to be with him through good and bad times of his progression. I think it helped him not be as scared. He knew he was dying it was just a matter of when. He often told me he wished there was a switch he could turn off to be done with it. It broke my heart, but some how it was healed knowing I was there with him every step of the way and he never had to feel alone.

Big hugs to you.

Mich

[river0123]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

My prayers and thoughts are with you. If I could help ease your heart, I would.:l

[cymru]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

So sorry to hear that Evie. It must be terribly difficult for you. Hold on and be strong. Thinking of you.

[tlrgs]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

hang in there girl ... sending warm hugs your way

[Lila]

I am SOOOO SAD !!!!!

oh EvieLou
I am sorry to hear that. Maybe he is just having a bad day and will change his mind. Have you talked to any of the nurses about his decision? I hope you are feeling a little bettter.
Love
Lila