Army Thread 21st December

[kaponium]

Army Thread 21st December

Lovely, Starts ! Sieze the day, indeed - LOVE it. Enjoy your hike darl.
When Vea gets out it will be winter, and we have decided to book a cabin in Arthur's Pass - a mountain resort with log fire rental cabins and lots of walks....just a party for the two of us ( with making a third in mind!!!!! TRUE!)

[startingover]

Army Thread 21st December

Bloody hell Kapo!!!! Really???? Wow, that is wonderful!!!
Ahh you have just brought tears to my eyes...GO for it girlie!!!!!!

[cymru]

Army Thread 21st December

That sounds perfect Kap.
Id like to have a little brother or sister for erin next year. I need to get back into work and prove to myself once and for all that booze is not needed in my life.

[kaponium]

Army Thread 21st December

Yeah - it is a pretty serious business, not to be taken lightly. We both want to get some real time up together AF first, we have done it before together for lengthy periods, and it was GREAT, unfortunately we are both very "HAPPY" drunks too.... However, life is just NOT the 24/7 party I used to want it to be - it is pretty dam cool that we are both "over it" i.e the drinking and self-centredness drinking brings. So....who knows - COULD be a reality, and damned fun trying anyway lol....Cy - You and Wish would make delightful babes too matey Ain't life grand....reckon sobriety better than lottery - because it brings such true happiness money just cannot buy...

[cymru]

Army Thread 21st December

How long has Vea been on the wagon kap?

[kaponium]

Army Thread 21st December

This time round about five months.....(the last three and a half jail however....) He has a similar pattern to mine - 6 mths here, 3 mths there, then TROUBLE blah blah blah - tis a toughie but we are slowly learning that it WILL be the ruin of us both together and individually ay.... So, fortunatel;y ( and that is putting it mildly) at long last, the need for sobriety has become a want!
We had a very bad motorbike accident at the beginning of the year, which should have killed us both. Funnily enough (well NOT so funny) we were both unable to walk for two weeks without the aid of crutches, so the windows at home got very clean, and we spent a LOT of time trying to figure out how to "get it on" Needless to say, we DID succeed LOL :H

[cymru]

Army Thread 21st December

LOL. Do you worry that drinking may come back into your life when he comes out?

[Guitarista]

Army Thread 21st December

Good morning/evening Trooper's present, and to come. Just passing through quickly to say, Happy birthday, Elizabeth L Leek! xxx.
Cy, 3 weeks! Feel the power!
Take care all......

[kaponium]

Army Thread 21st December

Yes, Cy, I do. However, I need to let that go for now, and stay in today - keep focused on the present. I cannot control others, whether their drinking habits or otherwise, I do not want to either - it just ends in resentment and calamity. I CAN keep ME sober though, One Day At A Time - and in that way, I can lead by example rather than control. i know Vea has just as much desire to remain sober as I have. Also, he is a tad more advanced in his alcoholism - his liver and kidneys have taken far more of a hammering than mine, and he cannot cope with the amounts that I put away. Fortunately, in a way, he is really quite UNABLE to drink - physically - any more. However, thanks for asking - valid and spot-on observation. I guess I do trust God (or a Higher Power/Holy Spirit) today - and in that trust comes the Faith that as Long as I do not drink - and do unto others as I would have them do unto me (not always that easy - but, hey - progress not perfection!) everything will be as it is supposed. What you and your Wishy have is something to aspire to, too - working together in love and unity Bless you, Cy

[kaponium]

Army Thread 21st December

Hey up, Gat - nice to see you - hope your Sunday been sunny and light mate x

[cymru]

Army Thread 21st December

kap, your a star!
Hey Mr G. Been listening to Mr Cheese?!

[kaponium]

Army Thread 21st December

Well peeps, I am for bed now - gotta be up bright and early to get our Cheezel to the vet...then a bit of work - weather permitting. Cy - been REALLY good yakking to you - thank you, sincerely. And awesome congrats again on 3 weeks. That is fantastic. Hope you have a soooooper dooooper day - keep that acronym thread as insane as poss, and enjoy your precious time with Erin mate. Bless you. And big hug to Wishy from me.

All to come, A Happy and Sober Sunday....Oney EAT WELL!!!!!!!

over and OUt!!

[cymru]

Army Thread 21st December

Sleep well Kap. Left you some chipmunks on facebook!
Nos Da x

[Wish Upon a Star]

Army Thread 21st December

Night kapo..... Big hugs to you to Hun x

[Sweetgum]

Army Thread 21st December

Hi all, just checking in, hope everyone is good x