Morning resolve, can we bottle it?

[A Work in Progress]

Morning resolve, can we bottle it?

CS04;514103 wrote: I wasn't sure if he doesn't have a problem, or doesn't think he has a problem, or has a problem and is unwilling to do anything about it. I am now leaning toward the latter. However, he knows I spend time still on MWO but am still struggling, but has said nothing to me about it. So now that is our elephant in the living room. I think he doesn't want to say anything to me about it because then he will have to confront something himself. Years ago he got angry with me for MY problem. Sorry to ramble, and believe me, I am not using him as an excuse, but I am just not sure how to deal with that part of the issue.

I also shared my struggles with my sister and 2 friends, who are close to the problem but really don't understand. And since I haven't [I]fixed[I] THE PROBLEM, but it's still OUT THERE, I just want to withdraw even more. So Gumby, I really understand how you feel.

CS, my heart goes out to you. I wish I knew a way to make that situation better, or easier for you... less heartbreaking and frustrating...

[CS04]

Morning resolve, can we bottle it?

Bumping this for myself...at witching hour! Arrgh!

[lilmea]

Morning resolve, can we bottle it?

Taking it really, really seriously makes all the difference... I am not imagining that all spouses will cooperate, understand, be sympathetic, etc., but I am suggesting that we, ourselves, cultivate a really serious mind-set about recovery...
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Wow-wip-that entire post - I actually copied the whole think off to keep. Thanks

[dill]

Morning resolve, can we bottle it?

CS, thanks for the Bump. Will help me today.