Army Thread 24th January 2009

[cymru]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

Police acadamy 2 is on itv!

[bloggy]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

cymru;528189 wrote: Hi Marbs. I am sorry about letting you down. Am back on track and ill pm you next week if thats o.k? Glad you had a good B/D. Hows shop thangs?

Aw Cy, you haven't let me down AT ALL!!!

The most important thing is you feel better, and taking care of You.

Shop is very quiet today- unusual for a Saturday, might get a few in later though.

[gyco]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

hi marbs and on tht note i will see all later keep strong all you no the old saying you can do , hahaha all nt long hahaha

[startingover]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

Ya see! We all hate it and struggle with it....socialising that is....why cant we just accept that we only wanna talk to the pc....

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

Oney, have you tried Creative Visualization ??? I would work with you in person, if I could.
I have seen great results and used it myself...There have been years that I went into isolation and still have times that i want to just MAKE THE WORLD GO AWAY...I get it, I really do.

[bloggy]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

Bye Gyco, have a lovely day (night?) xx

[cymru]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

This afternoon I have been changing laces on my trainers! I have a black pair that now have orange laces and a white pair with blue laces. That was another addiction when i had money, trainers, and adidas classics in particular!! How sad!

[bloggy]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

one2many;528200 wrote: Gyco, the doctor gave me pills to take but I have not taken them...I just dont dont like the idea of taking them, silly I know but I just done want to.

I agree Oney, if you don't want to take them, don't.

I think sometimes pills might work and cover the symptoms but eventually you still have to go back and face the cause.

[startingover]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

Well, I expect they look very fetching Cy

[startingover]

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But how do you find the cause?

[bloggy]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

I guess we need professional help there- but I don't know where to start looking- nothing I have ever tried gives lasting results- yes you feel better when you leave the therapist or whatever then a few days later nothing seems to have changed.

[cymru]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

I think only i will think that starts.!
For me, i found the condition. alcoholism and depression. Now when i didnt drink i was still depressed, so i found not an answer, but a way of helping me find the answer. To clear the head so to speak.

[cymru]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

Finding a spiritual well being is important too i think. I havent got near finding that yet, but hope to one day.

[bloggy]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

one2many;528210 wrote: I suppose if you try to delve into your spiritual side.....I honestly think that would help, find your inner child and begin to heal.....long process but I am willing to go about it in any way rather than pills.

A friend of mine who had a dreadful childhood did just that- she found a therapist who helped her tremendously, and these days is happily married in a high flying job she loves etc.

But before therapy she basically was a mess who more than likely would have ended up in jail or worse.

Unfortunately that therapist is now a top selling author who no longer practices- I read a book of hers, but I really think you need sessions in person to get to the root of it all.

[startingover]

Army Thread 24th January 2009

marbella;528209 wrote: I guess we need professional help there- but I don't know where to start looking- nothing I have ever tried gives lasting results- yes you feel better when you leave the therapist or whatever then a few days later nothing seems to have changed.

Yes, I know that feeling...
But I do feel that the counselling I had gave me some tools to heal going forward