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    #16
    ONE MONTH AF

    Congrats Monica! Very proud, very proud of you
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    Love yourself enough to walk away from what no longer serves you.

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      #17
      ONE MONTH AF

      Monica, congratulations! You are seeing, with your new sobriety, the inhibitions and insecurities of your boyfriend, and anyone else out there who treats your plan and work towards it as a 'joke'. Ain't nobody laughing at MWO!!! You can REALLY stopped that juvenile behaviour by immediately confronting the 'jokester' and asking just what the hell their intention is, since you'll be glad to explain yours! This is serious as a heart attack---we don't need to play when we're doing it. I've been with my husband 40 years, married over 38. I know that's more than most of you can comprehend, but the facts of life have not changed. If Hubs thinks he needs me drunk to be more compliant, then he needs more time in a cold shower! I need someone with me who loves and wants the best for me, not what satisfies his needs. Change is always difficult, and I have changed quickly since my sobriety. Luckily, he is learning to accept that change, and to love the sober me, the person he first met so many years ago. Think about what is important to you. I promise you there is no more of a man's man than my Hubs, and if he can do it, any good man should!
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        #18
        ONE MONTH AF

        Monica,
        Congrats! You will enable your own success. That BF though doesn't seem to have your best interests in view.
        My life is better without alcohol, since 9/1/12. My sobriety tool is the list at permalink 236 on the toolbox thread under monthly abstinance.

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          #19
          ONE MONTH AF

          Excellent stuff Monica!

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            #20
            ONE MONTH AF

            Well, blimey monica, well bloody done! And i know how that sabotage thing works alright. there is that threat there. but its great you recognize it, that is truly very imporant!
            no time like the present

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              #21
              ONE MONTH AF

              Congratulations, Monica! You sound fantastic!! Keep going......it keeps getting better!!!
              A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes~Cinderella

              AF 12/6/2007

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