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[Ripple]

Camera is charging. Husband calls to say he is having ONE more.. AGAIN.. can hardly talk. Have no idea how he plans to drive 30 minutes heavily drunk to get home?? Its after 12 mid-nite right now and i am stressed the hell out. I told him i was going to video him DRUNK the next time last nite when he was drunk, i am surprised he did it again today! Tonite is the nite.. he will never remember tomorrow. He told me before he left earlier, i have to work in the morning, i won't be late and here it is pushing towards 1:00 in the morning!!! I need this like i need a HOLE in my head right now. I'm a nervous wreck, i need evidence so he can see how bad he is.. please i am trying to repair myself, why does he do this to me!!!!!!

Thank you.. RIPPED.

[shelley]

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hi ripple,

the video thing - my boyfriend did that to me and i admit i was angry at first but it turned out to be the turning point for me really. his behaviour sounds very unfair especially as he should know what you are trying to achieve. i would have a long hard talk to him tommorrow - he needs to know that this is not on, does he have an alcohol problem of his own? it sounds like he might. i'm off to work now its 5.30 am in the uk. best of luck to you and i hope you manage to get through this xxx

[Aussie Chick]

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Oh my god Ripple - you've got me stressed now too!!!

If he is driving drunk then you should call the police and let him get caught. It's his choice to drink himself to death but not to risk the lives of other sober road users.

If my husband was driving drunk, as much as I love him I'd dob him into the police. It could be the short sharp shock he needs to start sorting his drinking problem out. He wouldn't even need to know you did it - you could do it anonymously. But you could just save his life and some innocent passer by's life too.

Sorry, sorry, sorry for blowing my mouth off but this one has got me really riled up. Not at you Ripple but your hubby.
AC x x x

[universal]

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Oh ripp.....honey I'm sorry you are going through this....I know how hard you have fought.

Whatever you choose to do, know I love you and you can pm me anytime.

[CS04]

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Ripple, if you have to work in the morning, then do so. If hubby has his
isues, then let him have hiss issues.

[Determinator]

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Sorry your having tough time Ripple, ditto what CS said. Hang in there! xxxx

[gyco]

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hi rip, i am sorry to here your woes,id hateto say it id just go to sleep,my wife did, worried sick,i no,i caused it,or as someone said phone him back or the bar and tell them to phone a cab,here the establishment can be held responsible,i wouldnt confront him,you are in a sorry situation,dont no if you got kids,relatives id phone and go to, he has to no you mean business,it has to do with your lively hood to,i wish you well and hope i dont offend gyco

[gyco]

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you need to talk ill be in chat

[Karl1981]

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hey Ripple,
ah this is not good, dealing with your prob's and now his as well, maybe its a good idea to video tape him, then he might realise what hes doing to him self and also you..

im always online if ya need to chat.

love you loads ripps

[kaponium]

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Hey Ripster - thinking of you, hon and praying your man stays safe. Get that bloody camera out and video the poor sod - it may save his life when he is full of remorse and hung over tomorrow x

[A Work in Progress]

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Rippy, you doing OK today? CS and Det are right, you know... you gotta realize... each person has to work on his or her own alcohol problem... you have to work on yours EVEN IF (and while) husbo is NOT working at all on his....

[gyco]

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hi rip, i hope your ok,hope your hubby made it ok,my oldest daughters going thro similar rt now,drinking,he wont seek help,family has the history,she to is going thro a lot, her eating of late has bothered him,so she s working on hers and hopefully he ll work on his, theres many trials in life we go thro,sometimes somthing drastic has to happen,in my case it did,i wish you well gyco

[IAD]

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You have every reason to be upset........sorry to hear of your delema. You know that sometimes you have to hit the bottom before you can see the surface. Good Luck......IAD.

[Evie.Lou]

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So sorry you are hurting Rippy, Hope the video thing works...proably will just cause more reason to argue ??? I don't know how I could have ever gotten sober if Hubby drank...Without that support it must be really challenging ...I wish you all the strength in the world..you are one GUTSY woman, that I know, for sure.

[KateH1]

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Good morning, Rippy......please check in and let us know how you are this morning. It sounds like it was quite a night again at your house. Frank drinking and driving is so frightening......I hope that he doesn't hurt or kill somone before he stops drinking and driving!!

Rip....in a way Frank is your teacher here. He is mirroring the uglieness of alcohol back to you! Alcoholism is ugly to the bone.....nasty! Good for you, choosing not to go along with him and drink last night!

Please check in and let us know how you are doing this morning!

xxx Kate