Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

[Seacailin]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

Please don't go Limers. I love you and need you here.

[startingover]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

You are doing so well with your house. I can feel the enthusiasm across the airwaves..its great! I hope you can move there for good soon. It suits you!

I am great today thanks. First day without my gum so its a bit funny. But this habit has GOT to go..

[Wish Upon a Star]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

Sea, it's good to hear from you x x

Starts, i didn't take any offence by them taking the P. They where only messing, actually quite funny.

WIP, sound like the house is coming on great.

[Evie.Lou]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

Dear Sweet SEA, Glad to see you back on board...

[kriger]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

Hi Starty, Limers, Wishy,Evie, WIP, Lilmea, BH and Sea,
Limers and Sea, Have a decent recovery day with plenty of water and decent wholesome food.
Wishy, Your house is shaping up fast....I admire your diligence in this project.
I missed Kapo yet again....I'm going to have to get up in the middle of the night to post!
Starty, I bet you can boot up in a heartbeat now with your Mac....wonderful machine!
BH, Glad to see your Mug back here with us. I hope you enjoyed your visit with family?
I have to drive a friend to work at 6:45a so I am up way early for that and a cup of coffee....by the way Evie, I would just have a little cream in my cup also. I will bring some cheese danish to our coffee break!
Limers, was there a trigger that set you off?
Krigs

[startingover]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

Hiya Krigs! Thats a bit early for a Sunday isnt it? You are a good friend!
Mac is just the best, I am so happy I have it!

[Guest]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

I JUST MEANT i HAVE TO REALLY DECIDE WHAT IM DOING, THING IS AT THE MOMENT I DONT REALLY KNOW IF THATS WEEKEND DRINKING OR NO DRINKING. i WOULD LOVE TO BE AF BUT THE WEEKEND COMES AND IM BOARD AND i GET DRUNK. I think if i dont know what im doing i kuinda dont belong here, however cant see myself living without you all. Sea, how are you? Krigs my trigger is saturdays and boredom!

[startingover]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

...and we cant live without you!

[Seacailin]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

Thank you guys. You are the BEST!! I am going to shower, change my bed linens. I will try to eat something at some point today. I don't even remember the last time that I ate.

[Guest]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

startingover;535027 wrote: ...and we cant live without you!

:l

[startingover]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

Good for you Sea! Lots of water too yes? Cleaning up will make you feel better too

[A Work in Progress]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

limers;535026 wrote: AT THE MOMENT I DONT REALLY KNOW IF THATS WEEKEND DRINKING OR NO DRINKING. i WOULD LOVE TO BE AF BUT THE WEEKEND COMES AND IM BOARD AND i GET DRUNK.

Well that's being very honest... and of course, you always are, and I admire that a lot. I wonder if you have thought about this: you are setting up what is called a "false dichotomy": the idea that there are only two choices in a given situation. In this case, your mind is saying: "There are only two choices: being 'bored,' or getting drunk. I don't want to be bored, so I am getting drunk."

I think, first of all, that there are always more than two choices; but the AV tends to distort our thinking in such a way that it is always telling us, when we are in a situation we don't like (being "bored" or unhappy or frustrated etc.), the only (or best) way out of it is getting high, or drunk... and that is simply not true... but we keep falling for it...

[A Work in Progress]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

Sea, I'm glad you are back... Hoping you can start getting things turned around in your life, soon!

[gyco]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

hi everyone off to church, being the good christian man i am,hhaahhaha,well wedding last nt was a good one, designated driver, was tired by 10pm.yawning all nt, better then half in the bag,but wow,there was a group near us that ouch to be some of them this morning,after a while it gets to be to much,one couldn't hardly stand,some of the ladies mt not of worn nothing,but it was interesting to look at,but so young and so drunk,truthfully i dont remember being like that, but maybe i was,sure glad i dont have to go to occasions like that all the time, i think id have to find a deserted island,other then that is was a good time,couldn't dance much,but what i could i did,hope all have a great day,See even gyco struggles but the best part, i didnt take care talk to all later gyco

[Guest]

Amry Thread 1st Feb 2009

A Work in Progress;535034 wrote: Well that's being very honest... and of course, you always are, and I admire that a lot. I wonder if you have thought about this: you are setting up what is called a "false dichotomy": the idea that there are only two choices in a given situation. In this case, your mind is saying: "There are only two choices: being 'bored,' or getting drunk. I don't want to be bored, so I am getting drunk."

I think, first of all, that there are always more than two choices; but the AV tends to distort our thinking in such a way that it is always telling us, when we are in a situation we don't like (being "bored" or unhappy or frustrated etc.), the only (or best) way out of it is getting high, or drunk... and that is simply not true... but we keep falling for it...

your right, I look at everything like that im very all or nothing by personality. Like I had long hair, very long hair and last may I decided ,that is t, i want it off. Thee is no imn between with me, i need to explore the in between.