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    #136
    Army thread 6th March

    limers;565458 wrote: Im not bad thanks Krigs, plodding away on my assignments. Well done on the nf front...what you going to give up next??Sex?? Or have you already done that??
    The next thing will have to be food....I am putting on weight all of a sudden from the "not smoking". I am getting puffy around the middle!!!
    "People usually fail when they are on the verge of success. So give as much care to the end as to the beginning." Lao-Tzu

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      #137
      Army thread 6th March

      well the spring is here, we have no excuse, I say no excuse. Did you not loose some when you gave up the wine?

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        #138
        Army thread 6th March

        kriger;565459 wrote: Zenny,
        I enjoyed my 2 days away from hubby. It was a great Symposium and a break from routine!! Hubby is so dependent upon me that he doesn't eat while I'm away. I totally do NOT need to be needed in that way....I think he acts juvenille but maybe he is just lazy. He's going to have to learn how to take care of himself because I am going to stop doing everything for him. I am getting too resentful about it. I'm going to tell him what's going on and that it is all about co-dependence so he is aware of why his life will be changing. No surprises for anyone on what will be going on in our house for a while. I think he and I will both benefit from this new way of having a relationship that is not built upon neediness from either side. We'll see. Krigs
        Good luck with that Krig, changing another habit is hard work, thatll be just as hard as any other.

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          #139
          Army thread 6th March

          I lost a few pounds when I quit drinking but those have come back- maybe 5 down and 5 up. I just can't afford any up.....I needed to go down, down down after the drinking stopped. I'm not going to get myself too caught up in worrying about my weight. Being off cigarettes is far better than almost anything!!! I'll worry about the other in 6 months or so.
          "People usually fail when they are on the verge of success. So give as much care to the end as to the beginning." Lao-Tzu

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            #140
            Army thread 6th March

            your right, your doing great, well bloody done, I really admire you.

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              #141
              Army thread 6th March

              limers;565469 wrote: Good luck with that Krig, changing another habit is hard work, thatll be just as hard as any other.
              We have SOOOO many things to change when we stop drinking; it totally amazes me really. My next problem after that is my "avoidance" issue. Unfortunately both hubby and I have that one down to a science and the pattern needs to be broken, big time. Once we crack that nut then on to.......who knows what-we'll find something.
              "People usually fail when they are on the verge of success. So give as much care to the end as to the beginning." Lao-Tzu

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                #142
                Army thread 6th March

                what are you avoiding?

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                  #143
                  Army thread 6th March

                  limers;565471 wrote: your right, your doing great, well bloody done, I really admire you.
                  You are so sweet to say that limishness!!
                  "People usually fail when they are on the verge of success. So give as much care to the end as to the beginning." Lao-Tzu

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                    #144
                    Army thread 6th March

                    I mean it, its you and Oney and Starty and all that give me hope.

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                      #145
                      Army thread 6th March

                      how are you doing with the booze Zen?

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                        #146
                        Army thread 6th March

                        Hubby and I avoid anything unpleasant- I mean anything!! Small problems turn into huge ones when you practice avoidance. Usually there is one person in a partnership that keeps the problems from turning ugly but hubby and I support each other on that and we have made some serious mistakes. I am having a really difficult time with that personality problem change. I need professional help, probably.....or I should at least read some self-help books on the subject. (to get some tools or strategies to break that cycle). Krigs
                        "People usually fail when they are on the verge of success. So give as much care to the end as to the beginning." Lao-Tzu

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                          #147
                          Army thread 6th March

                          limers;565475 wrote: I mean it, its you and Oney and Starty and all that give me hope.
                          If I can offer you some Hope, I am proud and glad to do it!!!!! Anytime.
                          Love,Krigs
                          "People usually fail when they are on the verge of success. So give as much care to the end as to the beginning." Lao-Tzu

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                            #148
                            Army thread 6th March

                            well good luck Krigs, I hope you get the result thats best for you all, scary stuff tho, eh?

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                              #149
                              Army thread 6th March

                              I've gotta run an errand. Be back in an hour.....
                              "People usually fail when they are on the verge of success. So give as much care to the end as to the beginning." Lao-Tzu

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                                #150
                                Army thread 6th March

                                I know you would do whatever you can and you do with your positivity.

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