Army Thread 25 March 09

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 25 March 09

Sorry to bring a dark cloud to this wonderful place. That's why I haven't posted much....Don't want to give you all anything but love...
SOOOOOO MISS Evie Lou get it together.....

[Guest]

Army Thread 25 March 09

Evie.Lou;579811 wrote: No not married....but 2 kids from two different drunk and drug woman...I am here for the kids and my kids but am not holding together to well.

Evie, your holding togther great!! My God, your brother just died and you havent drank yet, be proud, its nearly over , you can make it through this, you ARE making it through this.

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 25 March 09

cyclefan;579815 wrote: Evie

Divide the ashes. It is the simplest way. Stay out of stressful arguments that will make you drink.

Stop protecting your son, he knows how to deal with this as Hare Krishna he has to deal with it daily. He made his choice.

Go to your room. Take some deep breaths and come out smiling.

love you xo Beth

Dividing was my first suggestion ...sounds so reasonable doesn't it...they don't want just a part ...both so called wifes want it all ...am i am sure that won't end with the ashes.
I have struggling with what part I should play in this at all...Brother saw it coming and wanted me to sort out his mess....Am I strong enough ???
I DON'T KNOW !!!

[Lila]

Army Thread 25 March 09

oh dear, are there more things to fight over?

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 25 March 09

Limey...come and calm my heart rate down...I feel like it is beating right out of my chest.
I will bid you all adieu for now...misery loves company and THAT IS NOT WHO I AM so I will do as CY asked and go to my room.

[Lila]

Army Thread 25 March 09

Okay Evie, thinking of you...

[cyclefan]

Army Thread 25 March 09

What they don't know won't hurt them.

Seems like you need to get the "Evie Lou that gets sent to her room" on the case here.

A pretty box full of ashes. Give each of them one, you take the rest. When you give them the ashes, do it in secret like the person you are giving to is getting the ONLY box of ashes.

Besides, if you are planning mayhem, it'll take your mind off your sorrow (and the drink). Pretend like you and your brother are in on the trick, I'm sure he would love to pull one over on the ex-es.

Good luck! Please come here and post even if it is not glad news, get the ARMY behind you!

Evie.Lou;579821 wrote: Dividing was my first suggestion ...sounds so reasonable doesn't it...they don't want just a part ...both so called wifes want it all ...am i am sure that won't end with the ashes.
I have struggling with what part I should play in this at all...Brother saw it coming and wanted me to sort out his mess....Am I strong enough ???
I DON'T KNOW !!!

[Guest]

Army Thread 25 March 09

Evie.Lou;579824 wrote: Limey...come and calm my heart rate down...I feel like it is beating right out of my chest.
I will bid you all adieu for now...misery loves company and THAT IS NOT WHO I AM so I will do as CY asked and go to my room.

and pray Evie and I will pray now to that you soldier on through this....
at least you will emerge from this with you integrity in tact
and your brother will be so happy you did too.

[Guest]

Army Thread 25 March 09

wont be on much...the apprentice is about to start!

[Guest]

Army Thread 25 March 09

excitement of excitements...

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 25 March 09

Will is packing to go home and I am so afraid....It's hard to explain the way that I feel right now...I am losing myself....I will not drink. I do not drink. I will never drink !!! Drinking will cause me to die and I LOVE LIFE !!!!

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 25 March 09

I am OK for now...stayed tuned for tomorrow when Jamie and i have this house to ourselves.
One very good thing is happening...I am knowing my child as a MAN ... separate from the boy that I raised and he is knowing me as a person..not just his MOMMY !!
He doesn't believe that i am alcoholic...I have told him...but he doesn't understand ???? and he is drinking wine by the gallon. I don't know how to handle this. He is not an alcoholic (I don't think ??) and I KNOW I AM !!!

[irish eyes]

Army Thread 25 March 09

Evie.Lou;579811 wrote: No not married....but 2 kids from two different drunk and drug woman...I am here for the kids and my kids but am not holding together to well.

Hi Evie
Who said you had to hold it together? your brother has just died, give yourself permission to be sad and cry and not to hold it together. Your sadness is palbable my heart goes out to you. Come here and feel my arms around you. Your family are also grieveing in their own way everything will be ok.
Luv :l

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 25 March 09

He hasn't drank for almost 10 yrs. I think (hope) he is reconsidering his life's purpose ?? Not that he hasn't been helping people...He's been cooking for the FEED THE PEOPLE MINISTRY and said that it was me that taught him to cook. He is taking about going back to school and ... He is also smoking funny cigs ??? I wouldn't know about those but they smell like a bad 60s incense. ...
i wonder what guru Dave will say ???
i don't know how you do it but some how this army can always help me but things back into perceptive and make me smile at the same time....you are wonderful and I am BLESSED !!!!

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 25 March 09

irish eyes;579917 wrote: Hi Evie
Who said you had to hold it together? your brother has just died, give yourself permission to be sad and cry and not to hold it together. Your sadness is palbable my heart goes out to you. Come here and feel my arms around you. Your family are also grieveing in their own way everything will be ok.
Luv :l

Thank you so much. My heart HURTS !!! I can feel your arms around me ...DEAR IRISH !!!
I will hope to feel them physically around me this summer.