Army Thread 27th March 2009

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Did I forget to mention that he helped pay his way thru MED school by being a Chippendale's dancer ???
I encouraged it Sea ????...but I understand.... I would have felt different if it had been my daughter....BUT WHY ??? Society ...I guess that is the only real answer.
Think positive...The PRINCESS will grow up and think of all that you have to look forward to....
maybe she will join the Hari Krishna's ......LOL

[Seacailin]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Hang on Evie
I have to open the windows.lol

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

He just turned 36 on march 23rd...MY BABY BOY...Gotta go PRIMP myself so I do him proud...
love yous MUCH-LY !!!

[Seacailin]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Please wish him a happy birthday from this lonely old woman.lol

[fickle]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

LOL my daughter just told me a story about a little guy visiting at school today who was standing there blinking and blinking intensly and when somebody asked him what he was doing he said "I'm killing people with my secret eye bullets"
eeek!

Nighty night all..
Love yas & catchya soon i hope!

[Seacailin]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Can you say "Schizophrenia" Nighty nite
Ficks

[startingover]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Hiya Zenny, for a lot who havent been posting much, we have done pretty well today huh?

I often wonder why I started....now mostly I dont bother to think about it...I just try and get through it...after all, knowing why isnt necessarily going to help...
In a nutshell, I guess I find it hard to face things and I dont like feeling sad and since my world used to be a sad and scary place, I suppose I just got used to dealing with things that way....

[startingover]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Well, then maybe its good for you to do some self analysis...just dont get too tied with "why" if you cant figure it out...
What about writing down all the reasons you want to clean up? In all their graphic detail?

[startingover]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Its GREAT to ramble....here is the first time I did it and it sure does help...
Yes, I too went to counselling, didnt discuss my drinking but realised that my early life would easily have contributed to long lasting fear and unhappiness...it helped me to accept myself and not be so hard on myself...

[startingover]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

I think also, we get used to dealing with stuff a certain way, and that is to numb...now we have to learn a new way of living and dealing with stuff, it can be a bit scary too...

[startingover]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

What about going for addiction counselling?

[startingover]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Well, then it sounds like counselling would be a good way of doing that...
I cant remember, are you a fan of AA? One of the steps talks about exactly that...maybe that would help you?

[startingover]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Zenstyle;581120 wrote: You know, it's too simple to just "stop" and say "ah what the hell, I did all that shit for almost 30 years but I'm a different person now". That's just not right! I deserve to have to pick over the bones and look at the harsh reality of it!

I totally agree with you, but dont make that your make or break goal....

[startingover]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Right, I am off now...see ya later

[vlad]

Army Thread 27th March 2009

Hello again.