Army Thread 22nd June 2009

[startingover]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

Have a fabby trip Evie. Take care.

Oney, you are a much stronger person now than you were a few months ago.

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Army Thread 22nd June 2009

Of course you do, but knowing you as I do, there is a strength about you that wasnt there before.
And all this is very raw today, you will feel rotten.
But dont be lonely, I am here, do you want me to give you a call later? I know you arent fond of speaking on the phone, but If it helps I would be delighted to.
No pressure hun ok?

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

Oney, Please don't let Rob get out of this by playing on your emotions. I first thing that MEN do in situations like this is become little sweet, soft puppies.......When under neath they are still just plain old Bull DOGS !!! Stand STRONG, you need to make him accountable for his actions if there is any hope for any kind of relationship. This will set the whole "no nonsense" mood that you will need if the two of you separate. he will HAVE to support the kids....finacally and emotionally. Put on your STUMPING boots and play him this song..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZaZriFo95lw[/video]]YouTube - Jessica Simpson - These Boots Are Made For Walking

[startingover]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

Nice one Evie!!!!

[startingover]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

That is very true, you cant change him but he can change himself if he wants to.
The offer is there anytime, so no worries.

[Evie.Lou]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

Oney, of course you are feeling sad...change does that to people BUT we are GROWTH SEEKING BEINGS and when we don't grow we feel Depressed(long term sadness).
I think this is a temporary time of transition for you that will lead to an exciting NEW way of being..make sense ???

Think about what you want in the BIG PICTURE and work toward creating that...It worked for me and I KNOW it can work for you. I was married to the WRONG man for 27 yrs. and then I fell IN LOVE.
Don't stay in a relationship that isn't what you want because of the KIDS....I did and it was a bid mistake.

I care so much for you and want to see you living the life you deserve. Filled with LOVE !!!

[byebyebridgetjones]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

Dear Me Oney,
The worst lonliness I have ever felt in my life was in the middle of a relationship...a few of 'em actually.
I must admit I was wondering (after a few of your posts), how you are going with it when he drinks and you don't any more.
Anyway, my thoughts are with you love, from across the time zones.
Bridgex

[byebyebridgetjones]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

Jeez Oney,
I really feel for you.And you know, when the kids start noticing, it's no good. Especially when they start saying things at 'show and tell' and writing stories about their parent/s being pissed (in not so many words ).....Any way , you can be satified that at least YOU are doing the right thing for your kids.
Thinking of you , love and completely understand.
Bridge

[gyco]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

wow and a good morning to some and not to others i guess i get to pay attention to the little green one,for a moment,as you see you have let someone elses moments rule over yours,thats not a good thing for a person who knows they have an addiction but also one who is learning to control it,hope i dont get chastised for this,your husband woke up remorseful remember those days,onester i do feel for you i watch people around me every once in a while get under the weather,are situation is not easy,but my dear little one,we now become the judge,how do we handle it ? my heart is wih you gyco

[gyco]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

opal i do hope your day goes wonderfully hang tuff you will do well gyco

[gyco]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

dam the guy must just feel horrible rt now he has to face onester when he gets home later small woman with mighty punch not physically mentally im not on his ide but less we forget where we all were at one time,some sober,some modding but weveall lerned how to do this i have a friend rt now ive talked to he s ost his hole family everything as one said he has to do it for him

[gyco]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

back latr all

[greeneyes]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

Hey!

Bad pookey this AM oney? I had wondered if you were just talking about wob's drinking more or it was actually escalating. I feel for you, I really do.

Opal good luck today. Don't your have the social services meeting today?

Hey starty. gyco.

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

Hi Gyco, nice posts and some good points made.
Opal thats great, is must be nice to have positive confirmation that you are really doing yourself some good being AF and your health is improving.

[greeneyes]

Army Thread 22nd June 2009

You have a nice positiveness about you opal, You did well with the parties and it shows! I guess you're a bit nervous, but AF successes really make a difference in how you feel.

Hi ktab