The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

[ronnie]

Hi Everyone
Well I am in a better mood than I was yesterday, After trying to mod. my drinking which I did'nt do to well I have now decided to go A/F. I am now on Day 2
I still have a lot of issue to deal with mainley my hubby, as he is so self centered and seems not to care about me or my kids, but now I am sober hopefully I can try and do something about it.
Sorry to start this thread on a down note, but I just needed to share about it and I also need lots of hugs from everyone as I feel very lonely at the moment.
But apart from that I am fine and I hope you all have a wonderful day, I know that I am going to! or at least try.
Love ronnie xx

[Rags]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

'Morning Ronnie,
Good to hear you're feeling better. Hey, you and I are both on AF. I'm a little ahead.
Does your hudband have issues he is trying to deal with that is why is behaving like he is? (I don't want an answer, just a thought for you).
Big cyber hug for you!! Don't try, HAVE a good day!!
Signing off and up to Sydney, amongst other things to apply for my Indian visa. Time is getting closer.

[Cinders]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

(((Ronnie))),

I am sorry you are blue.

I know I have been having issues with my hubby lately, too. When I get sober, he constantly is on me about little things. I think I used to mask it with my drinking but now I can't.

I blew it yesterday big time and am back on Day 1 but I had some good time under my belt before that. So I am not letting myself relapse, just have a blip.

So, I am wondering how to deal with hubby on a good level when he starts the sniping.

I guess I feel so guilty because of my drinking that I feel I deserve the treatment but it can make staying sober a challenge.

Cindi

[ronnie]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

Hi Rags & Zen
Rags I hope you get your visa ok, you lucky thing!
Zen - what did you do on the yachts, sounds very exciting

[ronnie]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

Hi Cinders
I think when it comes to hubbies we need to stay strong and not let them take over our lives, I am going to start to stand up for myself and do alot more things for ME! for a change, I think the problem with my hubby is that I have just given in to his demands far to much and now its my turn and I am going to learn to say no to him when he comes up with an half brain idea and not worry about him sulking for the next 2 days or him being in a bad mood just because he cant get his own way.
My god just typing this I am thinking that I have got to treat my hubby like I treat my kids!!!! he is acting like a spoilt little brat !!!!!

[ronnie]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

Yes Zen but there is no way he is getting any little treats from me when he has been good:H

[ronnie]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

Hey Zen, is it summer or winter in florida
Its winter here and it is pouring down with rain and is going to stay that way until at least Sunday YUK

[ronnie]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

I cant wait for summer to come round again, things always seem better when the sun is shinning. It does'nt help that we have no heating (apart from small fan heaters) in this house. I must be getting use to Aussie weather as i seem to be alot colder this year than last year.....

[Rags]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

Well, here on the east coast at 35 S lat. it's about 11 celcius and overcast.
Hey, what did you do on yachts? We were going to sell our jouse and buy a 38 ft cat and sail round the world but not going to happen now. Did yopu sork on rich people's superyachts? O r do deliveries? Or coxswain?

[ronnie]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

I dont know, I think the weather program yesterday said that it will be about 14 degress but all I know at the moment is that it bloody cold!!!!!
Mind you I should be use to it comming from the UK but then again they have something called central heating there.......

[Rags]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

Ronnie, Florida is sorta like the whitsundays, but more expensive (gulp), more crowded, and not as nice!!! It lies between about 20 -25 N lat so similar weather as Whitsundays.

[ronnie]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

Wow rags when you go round the world on your cat, can I come .........:H
we used to have a ski boat but had to sell it when we moved over here, it does'nt sound as exciting as your yaught tho

[ronnie]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

Oh I liked Florida when I went mind you it was 9 years ago but I have never been to Whitsundays
But we were at the theme parks all the time - im like a kid in a sweet shop when it come to fast rides !!!!!

[ronnie]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

Gosh Zen, I bet you have seen a few places then?

[Cinders]

The Next Day Thread, Tue 24th June

14 C is 57.4 Fahrenheit.

You call that cold?

Cindi