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Tip - I don't do hugs, but if I did ... allow me now. Thank you for telling us.
Tip - I don't do hugs, but if I did ... allow me now. Thank you for telling us.
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Jesus Tip,tiptronic_ct;683748 wrote: For the 1st time, I actually won't mind sharing. Ever since I was 18, I've been walking around with hellish feelings of guilt. I had a car accident in which my aunt was killed during the holiday after I finished school. I never talked to anyone about it, and neither did my family talk to me. My father, in his wisdom, even sent me to collect her ashes from the crematorium and had me transfer it from a cardboard box to a miniature coffin. A month after the fact, I left for university. Quite simply, I've been blaming myself for killing another person (my godmother, at that!). I have reached the point where I'm beginning to see it was accident, and I can allow myself to move on. I had fallen asleep at the wheel, not as if I was recless, speeding, DUI or something like that.
The ONLY person I've ever discussed this with has been my wife, and I only met her when I was 25 (7 years after it happened)...
Talk about taking your time to move on, but there it is...
You've been keeping THAT one inside for along time haven't you ?
And yes it was an accident.
Your roads, I'm sure are like ours. Long and tedious, just inviting that exact set of circumstances.
You would be amazed how many times I've seen this sort of thing come through Accident and Emergency...or Casualty as it was 'in my day'.
One poor man, a truck driver, lost his daughter, in the cabin with him at the time. It was FECKING horrible for him.
I think it's a good sign that you are reconciling all of this now Tips :lIf your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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OK, enough niceness, you Feckers!What you perceive is what you believe, so make sure you look at things the right way....Comment
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Well done Tip, Great you are at a point where you can post what has been haunting you all these years..
That's awesome!
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Tip thank you for sharing with us, it cant have been easy. I am so happy for you that you can finally accept that accident for exactly what it was, an accident and hopefully move forward with your life. The visit to the crematorium must have been particularily horific for you.
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Oney, it's the most opposite image of the love heart nice one I could find...
It's actually the album cover of Nick Caves "Grindrman"What you perceive is what you believe, so make sure you look at things the right way....Comment
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Evening/morning all!
A couple of roo sandwiches for dinner. mmmm........
Plenty of raillery afoot, i see.
A safe, sober day/night to all.
'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'
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Hi Mr G...
You ate SKIPPY ? Eeewwwww.....sorry that's one bush tucker experience I won't be having.
How's yer day been mate ?If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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Great day thanks Bridge. Out and about on me old bike, having lunch on the promenade, swanning around here and there, you know? I'll be a 'Gentleman of leisure' again one day! Hope you're well....
'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'
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I am indeed very well G force.
YOu're having a ball aren't you ?If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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Oh yes. It's just great getting out and about on the weekday's, while everyone else is at work. Lot's of stuff to do, but relaxing here as well.
'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'
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No Oney, a mate just called by for a coffee...one2many;683784 wrote: I BET you are off looking for a new avatar....
I like my new green, just kicked in the bollocks look :-)What you perceive is what you believe, so make sure you look at things the right way....Comment
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Look I was just wondering today. Do you take Kudzu ? And if so where do you get it ?
I've got a feeling I asked you this before. Sorry.If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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G'day Oner's! I read you are feeling better. Bravo!
Bridget, are you talking to me, re kudzu? If so, no, i don't take it, or any other supps, though as mentioned last night, i've just started taking spirilina, just for the hell of it really. I'm tipping it can't hurt, and though i'm as fit as a bull, i suspect my body wont mind after years of abuse.
I don't know where you'd get kudzu in Oz, but will look around here for you.
'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'
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Waves, it can be a hazard having big ball's. Just ask Bridget!..........;-)
'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'
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