Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

[sosad61]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

I agree Grace, you really do need to get away from his toxic personality. Look what he's done to you in the last two days, spurned you on to turn to the bottle again. You really should get away from him as quickly as possible.

[Guest]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

I did not realize , I did not log out. Then came up this message some one else was posting message under my name.Gee , who would even want to do that? BUT guess my account has been hacked.
Yes I am totally stupid to stay here, but I have like $315.00 dollars to my name. My daughter who used to be my best friend, her husband at 34 years old had a major heart attack, going through all those issues, I tried once to call a son who lives closer to me and he called the cops, no not good , did not solve anything. They just want me dead. I can look past my life and see for my husband, hey no kids, lifetime on the road, hey a wife not a good thing, This ex wife is on a mission to destroy me as she has anyone past her marriage to him 20 years ago.(4 remarriages) , I know he does not even like her, but telling her and me she is the love of his life, Not true. She inherited a huge amount of money. He wants in on that. That is the only reason for this. This happened 2 years into our marriage. he is Peter Pan, wants a mommy to take care of him.
I think they are determined to find a way to kill me off. They want me out now. Her children have given her a hard time for making my life miserable. They hate my husband and have seen what she is doing to me. They have emailed me and she has admitted they are hating what she is doing to me.
But dead is dead! HA
Maybe in the end, my suffering is over when they kill me, and hopefully they both end up in prison for this.

[Zeppie2]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

Hi Grace, hope you are feeling better
Which posts under your name are the ones where someone stole your identity?

[Guest]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

I honestly don't know, I was just given a warning someone had hacked my account and was posting under my name. I really don't think it was my husband or his girlfriend, they are too busy with each other. Maybe just some sicko out there.

[Guest]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

I think the posts I made today are all mine. I'm just too despondent to go through them all. I just felt so weird to find someone would decide to hack my account.

[sosad61]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

Saving Grace;695943 wrote: I honestly don't know, I was just given a warning someone had hacked my account and was posting under my name. I really don't think it was my husband or his girlfriend, they are too busy with each other. Maybe just some sicko out there.

Grace, if you were logged on all this time, nobody could have logged in under your name and made any posts. I don't mean to be nosy, but have you been drinking all day long? The drink can and will play strange tricks on the mind, and paranoia is one of them; I ought to know, I was an expert at it for years.

[clare]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

i find this post very disturbing,really dont understand whats happening now.but i do no that bottle of whisky will not solve any problems and the problem will be still there when the bottle is empty.i hope things work out,there is good support here saving grace

[Guest]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

how are you getting on buddy?

[InnerStrength]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

Grace
He sounds like a capital A asshole. Does he drink? I just wonder what made him turn so dramatically from loving you yesterday to "hating you and wanting you dead" today.

[Zeppie2]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

Grace - you have to stop drinking - you can do it.

[Tulipe]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

Grace,
My heart goes out to you. You gotta get out of this bad cycle.

[bloggy]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

more2life;696066 wrote: Wow Grace, where do I start. First off, your husband is a cheating, lying sack of shit. I would love to have his number to tell him exactly what a piece of crap he is. Any so called man that degrades and abuses a female is a nobody! Your husband is a self absorbed, egotistical jerk who needs to belittle women to make himself feel better. He obviously has a problem with low self esteem if he has to photoshop his dick to convince himself he is worthy enough to post it. What a dick! What kind of trash wants to see it anyway. I highly doubt his this so called famous band member. If so I would love to have his name.


You are better than this my dear. If you really think he has the intent to harm you, then don't hesitate to call 911. Kick his ass out and get a restraining order. The one thing you can control is your drinking. Do not give in to him. If you have any AL in the house I want you to pour it out. Seriously give me the assholes number. I'm sure several of us would love to call him. The prick!

NO, I'm not drinking, just fired up! Tulip- I hope you are doing well.

M2

Ditto.

More2life, you took the words right out of my mouth.

Please post his number Grace, I promise I won't call him.

I am so HAPPY this has happened and you can finally get this moron out of your life. I know it won't seem this way to you now, but in a few short months you will be SO GLAD that you had to go this bad period to be rid of this parasite.

Please post his number....or at least his email.

[mario]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

more2life;696066 wrote: Wow Grace, where do I start. First off, your husband is a cheating, lying sack of shit. I would love to have his number to tell him exactly what a piece of crap he is. Any so called man that degrades and abuses a female is a nobody! Your husband is a self absorbed, egotistical jerk who needs to belittle women to make himself feel better. He obviously has a problem with low self esteem if he has to photoshop his dick to convince himself he is worthy enough to post it. What a dick! What kind of trash wants to see it anyway. I highly doubt his this so called famous band member. If so I would love to have his name.


You are better than this my dear. If you really think he has the intent to harm you, then don't hesitate to call 911. Kick his ass out and get a restraining order. The one thing you can control is your drinking. Do not give in to him. If you have any AL in the house I want you to pour it out. Seriously give me the assholes number. I'm sure several of us would love to call him. The prick!

NO, I'm not drinking, just fired up! Tulip- I hope you are doing well.

M2

I support the above. Remember you have no control over what the other people do, you have only control over what you do.

[brightlite]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

Grace, don't be scared about being alone. You will find out many wonderful things about yourself and you will do so many things that you would never have done when you were with the A**hole! I know money is an issue, but make a plan. YOU CAN and YOU WILL make things happen to remove yourself from that toxic relationship. Like I said, try to stay positive and keep your plans to yourself for now. Gather what information you can from his abuse, lies and cheating. Call an attorney. You can do it Grace! It is very disturbing to me that you are in that sort of relationship. Please, Please....do not communicate with the Ex-skank or her children! You may think that they have empathy for you, but believe me....they are running back to tell the EX everything. Don't talk to anyone in that toxic circle!!!! I'm sorry about your own children, can you start mending the relationships?? ONLY YOU CAN HELP YOURSELF. Please show us you are taking a step.

[greeneyes]

Husband having affair??? - facebook blues

Grace, I suspect you are feeling lots of emotions simultaneously these days. Perhaps you could see a therapist or your minister? You might call social services and see if they have advice on how to find a therapist you could afford. Don't have a minister? This might be a good time to start going to church if you believe in higher power. Not just for the minister, but support from a new group of people as well. You are being abused. What that abuse has made you think of yourself isn't true. Please see an attorney so you can at least see what your options are. You can call the bar association and see what is available for those with limited financial resorces. :l

Tulipe, I doubt your circumstanaces disappeared along with your original post. How are you feeling? :l