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    Reasons not to drink

    This was posted a couple of years ago and I printed it out and stuck it on my fridge ....... thought that it was worth posting again ....

    Why I need to moderate/stop:

    I gain weight
    I get dull, dry, splotchy skin
    I have red, puffy, tired eyes
    I give people a bad impression of me
    When I go overboard, I smell bad - and I am paranoid of this the whole next day
    I get to the point I can?t walk properly
    I get cranky and irritable when I?m hungover
    It?s sometimes hard to concentrate the morning after
    I have less interest in things that used to interest me
    I talk too much and reveal too much
    I don?t get things done I need to do (bills, household chores)
    I ignore my family and friends
    I back out of obligations
    I have to lie to cover up the fact I?m drinking or hungover, or planning to drink
    I injure myself
    I eat stuff I shouldn?t eat, or, more typically, don?t eat at all
    I get dehydrated
    I don?t sleep well or I sleep too much
    I waste days sleeping off a drunk
    I am filled with anxiety and guilt the next day
    I break stuff
    I don?t keep my place tidy
    I've driven when I shouldn?t
    I spend too much money on alcohol
    I worry when I run into people who may have seen me out drinking
    My hair gets flat and lifeless
    I smoke too much when I drink
    I sometimes black out and have no recollection of what I?ve done
    I sneak my drinking
    I lie to my family and friends about my drinking
    I call people I shouldn?t when I drink
    I risk adversely affecting my work reputation
    I lose credibility
    I don?t have any motivation
    I don?t do as good a job at work as I could
    I don?t exercise
    I've lost friendships due to my drinking
    I don?t have the energy to walk to work
    I feel edgy, nervous after drinking too much; not as alert as I should be, when I?m hungover
    I don?t dress as well as I should the morning after
    I make impulsive purchases
    I end up beholden to others because of my drinking behavior
    I get myself in bad and potentially dangerous situations
    I lose things when I drink
    I?m perceived as someone with a problem
    I embarrass myself and others
    I upset my family and embarrass them when I drink
    I don?t like to interact with other people
    I live with shame, regret and remorse.

    I can honestly admit to 27 of these ........ Ooooops .......

    Love & Hugs, BB xxx
    sigpicXXX

    #2
    Reasons not to drink

    Dear Lord, BB,
    Are you my missing twin?
    We'll have to start posting as a duet.
    Jackie xxx
    AF since 7/7/2009
    It could be worse, I could be filing.
    AF since 7/7/2009

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      #3
      Reasons not to drink

      Here is my list on why I can no longer drink.


      1. Sure I will have fun now, but I will feel guilty and think of you all.
      2. Hangover in the morning and I have to work tomorrow through it.
      3. I would have to start over at day 1.
      4. I may turn into a big crybaby.
      5. Its hot outside.
      6. No Special Occasion.
      7. Will not aid into my quit.
      8. Against my faith.
      9. I will hate myself for caving in.
      10. Why should I drink when being sober is so much funner.
      I quit drinking on March 8, 2020. Taking it One Day At A Time and no more taking my quit for granted.

      Also doing it for me. I got to stay sober for me.

      Just consecrate on today and do what you can to remain sober for today and worry about staying sober tomorrow, tomorrow.

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        #4
        Reasons not to drink

        1 i dont want to
        2 i dont want to
        3 i dont want to
        4 i dont need to
        5 i choose not to drink
        and that what im saying and stickin to it
        :beach: life does change as long as you are willing to change yourself ..
        best thing about the future it comes one day at a time..

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          #5
          Reasons not to drink

          i agree with all the above!!

          Last night my daughter walked to her friends house about 15 mins away. She was due home at 10pm. At about 9:30 it started pouring, lightning, thunder, the works.

          On a Saturday night at 10pm I was able to drive and pick her up. That I would not have been able to do had i started on wine at 5 or 6. I felt really good!
          AF/SF - November 23, 2014

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            #6
            Reasons not to drink

            Great post Betty Boop. I can relate!
            September 23, 2011

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              #7
              Reasons not to drink

              Geat post - I will definitely refer back to this when I feel my resolve slipping.

              I am just beginning and I am only 8 days AF. One of the things that I have noticed is that I feel more like "me". When I was drinking heavily - even when sober - I felt like a different person; I didn't know what happened to "me" and the things that I used to like doing. I thought that maybe it was an aging thing, and now I realize that it was due to the AL.

              Anybody else experience something similar?
              ODAT!

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                #8
                Reasons not to drink

                Good result Mstall, one of the best reasons!
                Pipsqueak

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                  #9
                  Reasons not to drink

                  I didn't know what happened to "me" and the things that I used to like doing. I thought that maybe it was an aging thing, and now I realize that it was due to the AL

                  I have taken my life back and I won't let AL steal it away from me.
                  AF since 7/26/2009




                  "There is nothing noble in being superior to other man. The true nobility is being superior to your previous self."--Hindu proverb.

                  "Sobriety isn't a landing but rather a journey." anonymous

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                    #10
                    Reasons not to drink

                    I didn't know what happened to "me" and the things that I used to like doing. I thought that maybe it was an aging thing, and now I realize that it was due to the AL
                    I've taken my life back and I won't let AL steal it from me.
                    AF since 7/26/2009




                    "There is nothing noble in being superior to other man. The true nobility is being superior to your previous self."--Hindu proverb.

                    "Sobriety isn't a landing but rather a journey." anonymous

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                      #11
                      Reasons not to drink

                      Thanks for that reminder BB - so true. I will keep this one close as one of my tools NOT to drink!
                      Every day is a day to start over and remember that I am powerless over my addiction. I will no longer give the BEAST any power over me - he can go straight to hell.
                      :h

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                        #12
                        Reasons not to drink

                        I will not drink because ..............
                        I tell lies & make excuses
                        break promises
                        miss work,leave early
                        start fights
                        loose a lot of money
                        develop a coundent care less attitude for everyone
                        panic attacks
                        shakes
                        liver damage
                        stop paying bills
                        have the mother of all hangovers
                        and i woundent be here talking to all you lovely people


                        :congratulatory: Clean & Sober since 13/01/2009 :congratulatory:

                        Until one is committed there is always hesitant thoughts.
                        I know enough to know that I don't know enough.

                        This signature has been typed in front of a live studio audience.

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                          #13
                          Reasons not to drink

                          Bump because I still think it is powerful

                          BB xx
                          sigpicXXX

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                            #14
                            Reasons not to drink

                            wow what an eye opening day today at mwo, these posts are a great reminder why we shouldn't drink. Thanks

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                              #15
                              Reasons not to drink

                              Love this BB..thank you hon xxx
                              "It's not your job to like me, it's mine!"

                              AF 10th May 2010
                              NF 12th May 2010

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