Army Thread 26/8/09

[sunshine_gg]

Army Thread 26/8/09

Tough one, limers... but not uncommon, I don't think. I went through much of the same with Matt... PLUS smoking a LOT of pot.

Is there ever a time when he's willing to talk/listen? Can you sit him down calmly and explain what you expect and why? Does he respond to incentives?

[sunshine_gg]

Army Thread 26/8/09

Mine has come around quite nicely, Limers. We talk LOTS and he seems to be maturing quite a bit over the last few months. He's still a flake, mind you....

[Guest]

Army Thread 26/8/09

Zak is smoking as well , he will sit and hear me and talk back but hes not really listening, anyway, feck it, lets talk about sommit else, im sick of thinking of the little fecker!!

[one2many]

Army Thread 26/8/09

Jesus Limers..nightmare.....thats a tough one....I dread that part of my life too.
The pure fact of NOT having any control I think is the hardest.
Can you completely stop giving him money?

[one2many]

Army Thread 26/8/09

Sorry cross posted Limers
I will shut up now lol

[Guest]

Army Thread 26/8/09

if I did, he would find a way Oney, he was already 'making his own money'.....

[Guest]

Army Thread 26/8/09

Ah thanks for the eyes Oney..(was gonna say ears, but ya know)

[one2many]

Army Thread 26/8/09

I know hon..I hope it gets better for you..isnt there a place you can ring..parentline or summat like that, I know my frien rang about her daughter and got great advice last year

[Guest]

Army Thread 26/8/09

I think I will do just that, just worry about who im spilling too!

[one2many]

Army Thread 26/8/09

it is annoymous, dont give your real name or Zacs either, they deal with this stuff everyday, I am sure they could advise you.Apparantly they are all people who have been thru it themselves.

[Guest]

Army Thread 26/8/09

ok, I will try it , thanks Oners, I do need advice, im going to do a parenting course this autum, cant do any harm eh??lol

[Guest]

Army Thread 26/8/09

need a 'how to be a normal mum ' course as well!! And oh , im reading Dr. Phils , how to have a phonomanal family !!

[one2many]

Army Thread 26/8/09

I will be doing one as soon as Adam hits 12.....

It cant do any harm Limers..try it..this is your first time doing this..there are no manuals, very hard to know what to do thats right.

[Guest]

Army Thread 26/8/09

I know, and I have 3 more behind them!!

[Guest]

Army Thread 26/8/09

I see no more big bro after next yr!