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    Hi everyone

    I thought I would write myself a list of all the things I would gain if I stopped drinking and thought I would share it with you. If anyone has things to add to this - then please do. It's amazing when I look at it - it's a no brainer really!! why would anyone drink when they have so much to gain????!! Why on earth do I do it. Anyway - here goes:

    If I didn?t drink:

    ? I would lose lots of weight without having to try

    ? I would look better ? with healthier skin and hair

    ? I would save a huge amount of money (which I could spend on a fabulous holiday)

    ? I wouldn?t feel tired all the time ? but full of energy

    ? I wouldn?t feel panicky and depressed the day after a binge ? but in control and on top of things

    ? I wouldn't spend hours worrying about my health and what I am doing to my body

    ? I wouldn?t dread people phoning or turning up unexpectedly in the evening and finding me drunk

    ? I wouldn?t have massive guilt trips for the things I have said and done when I?m drunk

    ? I would gain a massive amount of self-respect ? I am a great person if only I can rid myself of this horrible addiction

    ? My loved ones would respect me again

    ? I wouldn?t spend numerous sleepless nights (as I do now) worrying that my loved ones will give up on me and leave

    ? I wouldn?t have to worry about potentially being ?over the limit? when driving to work the day after a big binge

    Today I am back on day one - but looking at my list everyday may give me the incentive to have another AF day.

    All the best

    Snap X
    Never put off to tomorrow what you can achieve today!

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    Good job! This list will help all of us Snap! Thanks for sharing!

    Lynnie

    :goodjob:

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      #3
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      Great list! Best of luck Snap.

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        #4
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        Love the list boy can I relate!
        DLW
        Sobriety since October 2008 ( with a few bumps in the road ) - but I am still here, strong and fighting every day for my sobriety!
        And every day is a challenge - But I am WINNING so far!



        • Yesterday is History
          Today is a Mystery
          Tomorrow is a GIFT

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          Great post Snap, for me 'time' has to be the best thing i have gained, all those hungover mornings and days eventually add up and the best thing about not drinking is getting those mornings and days BACK.

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            Your list could be mine. Thanks for reminding me of all the reasons I am AF for 13 days.
            Redhibiscus
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              #7
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              Great list snap, all the best and good luck
              :dancin: enguin:
              starting over

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                #8
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                Great list, save it and keep reading it!!
                May our choices today not result in regret, but rather be wise

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                  Thank you for posting such a great list! I can relate to each one.
                  The best to you, Snap!:goodjob:
                  When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.
                  -- Franklin D Roosevelt --

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                    We ALL should have such a list! I would add that I can regain an interest in all the things I gave up for AL; putting it first, ahead of my loved ones and joy of discovery every day can bring.
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                    awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                      The list is positively inspiring. I have mentally thought all those things at one point or another. To see them listed one by one and how much there is to gain being AF is like a bucket of cold water being dumped on me......

                      It makes me look at how this has controlled my life - the times I haven't answered the phone because I didn't want the caller to know I had been drinking. Getting up the day after, wracked with guilt and shame. The money spent! I have not been eating as much and can't figure out why I don't loose weight - probably those thousand calories a night I drink. I am terrified what I have done to my health. And on and on....

                      I am going to print or make my own list and keep it with me...anytime I think or feel the urge to drink...I will read it and pray for strength.

                      Again, on Day 1 but I am going to find the strenght to move beyond this addiction. I want to go 30 days and then 60 and never have the urge or desire to drink again. Which I know all too well is not that easy.

                      But to see what I have to gain. Thank you. Fox

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                        Brilliant list snap.Will print this out and read it often.will actually tick when i've acheived all of these...on day 2 but feeling hopeful...

                        ruby,too true!

                        xx
                        "Just when i was getting used to yesterday,along came today"
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                        Bring it on!
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                          I'm on day 2 fox!!!

                          We can do this please god!

                          hugs
                          annie
                          "Just when i was getting used to yesterday,along came today"
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                          Bring it on!
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                            Good work, annie.
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                            Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
                            awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                              Snap, thanks for sharing :h
                              :l
                              LTG AF January 13, 2011

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