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    You know... sometimes 'to PM or not PM is the question. Sometimes you want to reach out to someone or are wondering where or how someone is... but then you don't. I thought that it would be good for everyone to see/hear how those PMs can make a difference. I'll go first, but it'd be wonderful if you all could add your own experiences.

    1. Renewal - Renewal contacted me out of nowhere when I barely knew how to open a Private Message. Within a few exchanges he took me from a frightened, hopeless, blithering nut to someone who started to believe that change was possible. HE was there during my very first 7 days AF. HE made it possible. Thank you, Renewal.

    2. When I fell off the wagon and disappeared into oblivion, there were a few people checking up on me. Among them Cyclefan and SweatyBetty. Thank you, girls.

    3. The people who jump into chat when someone is in need. Consistently willing to help are LookingToGrow, Startingover, One2Many, Mr. T
    (I can never get those letters right, Rog.. I'm sorry! LOL), Determinator, AAAthlete, Opal, Greenie, and SO MANY OTHERS
    . Thank you to all of you.

    ALL of you/us help in some way. Whether it is sharing a story, thought, or feeling that someone else identifies with or a word of encouragement. Through every post, every chat, every PM, every telephone conversation. And sometimes, a simple act of compassion, a 2 line PM can make all the difference to someone struggling.
    Okay, WHO put a stop payment on my reality check?

    Winning since October 24th, 2013

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    That was so sweet! Thank you sunnybutt. That was better than the hug from the little take out boy the other night. Ehhhhh....maybe. :H
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    Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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      Oh hush up, you butt head! :H I was being serious! For a change!
      Okay, WHO put a stop payment on my reality check?

      Winning since October 24th, 2013

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        I think Limers sent me my first PM back in the day...and I've always been particularly fond of her for it.
        StartingOver has always been there when I needed.
        Actually, I can't think of anyone here that pisses me off...amazing:H There's always been someone there when needed.
        Thanks everyone & special thanks to you, SunnyGG, for reminding me!

        xo

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          I don't know if you remember Sunny but you were probably the 1st person to say 'hello' to me in chat and I'll be forever grateful.

          The 1st PM I got I looked at the little flashy thing and my immediate thought 'oh god what have I done wrong'. Alkie brain at work.

          It was a few words of welcome and support.

          So thank you every one.

          If I can help one person then perhaps that person can help another.

          Wise words Sunny.

          Love Jackie xxx

          AF since 7/7/2009
          It could be worse, I could be filing.
          AF since 7/7/2009

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            What a great thread Sunnyarse!

            There have been so many people who have helped me here...too many to mantion but I will try...

            Starty...we started at the same time and became friends....she knows whatever mood I am in without me telling her....she knows if I need to talk or if I need to be left alone....I remember her ringing me one night when Alfie was sick and calming me down (she has one of those voices)....she has been a real rock to me...As was Limers who I love dearly and without her, I would NEVER have started my University course.xxxx

            I have also received pm's from people that have really made the difference.....amazing how a pm can help and lift you up and let you see that people really do care.
            Zenners, Krigers, Ruby, Cinders, Ktab, LTG, WIP, Sooty, Greenie, Deebee,Popeye, Irish eyes...you all know who you are and if I left anyone out..sorry but I am still rubbing the sleep out of my eyes....

            I know this place has it's moments and it's drama's..thats life...But the care and compassion I have known here is more than I have ever had in my 37 years...and I am beginning to learn that maybe I am not so bad after all...there may be something in me worth liking.

            You have all taught me that. Each and every one of you.

            Thank you xxxx
            "It's not your job to like me, it's mine!"

            AF 10th May 2010
            NF 12th May 2010

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              Angelcakes;731980 wrote: I think Limers sent me my first PM back in the day...and I've always been particularly fond of her for it.
              StartingOver has always been there when I needed.
              Actually, I can't think of anyone here that pisses me off...amazing:H There's always been someone there when needed.
              Thanks everyone & special thanks to you, SunnyGG, for reminding me!

              xo
              :l thanks Angel, thats lovely.

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                one2many;732022 wrote: What a great thread Sunnyarse!

                There have been so many people who have helped me here...too many to mantion but I will try...

                Starty...we started at the same time and became friends....she knows whatever mood I am in without me telling her....she knows if I need to talk or if I need to be left alone....I remember her ringing me one night when Alfie was sick and calming me down (she has one of those voices)....she has been a real rock to me...As was Limers who I love dearly and without her, I would NEVER have started my University course.xxxx

                I have also received pm's from people that have really made the difference.....amazing how a pm can help and lift you up and let you see that people really do care.
                Zenners, Krigers, Ruby, Cinders, Ktab, LTG, WIP, Sooty, Greenie, Deebee,Popeye, Irish eyes...you all know who you are and if I left anyone out..sorry but I am still rubbing the sleep out of my eyes....

                I know this place has it's moments and it's drama's..thats life...But the care and compassion I have known here is more than I have ever had in my 37 years...and I am beginning to learn that maybe I am not so bad after all...there may be something in me worth liking.

                You have all taught me that. Each and every one of you.

                Thank you xxxx
                Ah Oney...:l

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                  There have been so many people who have helped me here...too many to mantion but I will try...
                  You're right, Oney, too many to mention... it really IS quite a community we have here.
                  Okay, WHO put a stop payment on my reality check?

                  Winning since October 24th, 2013

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                    when i join here in october 2007 The first two people that pm me was cowgal and mitch96
                    They give me lots of encourgment with caring kind words, i was taken back and was losts for words. it really meant a lot to me and what made it real for me was that i knew they were to struggling.
                    Also wonderworld she pm me with a lists of AA groups in my area and give me her own experiences and what to expect it was my first time and it really help me a lot...

                    Like oney said there are lots of wonderful poeple and would not want to miss anyone out
                    that has help me through my bad times!

                    Thanx you all xXx :l
                    Formerly known as Teardrop:l
                    sober dry since 11th Jan '2010' relapse/slip on 23/7/13 working in progress ! Sober date 25/7/13 ( True learning has often followed an eclipse, a time of darkness, but with each cycle of my recovery, the light grows stronger and my vision is clearer. (AA)
                    my desire to avoid hitting bottom again was more powerful then my desire to drink !

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