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fickle;756065 wrote: too much time on my hands at night sometimes.. i play a lot on youtube & have a good ear
I was a DJ briefly in a former life.. now I do corporate stuff.. crumbling to dust as we speak
Am applying for new jobs but scared that there's not really much out there.. also realised I'm actually quite well paid. Might just have to stick it.

yes you must i have been downloading your choices in music for A LONG TIME you have the ear fickel lucky you

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Im hopless entrapped in the 80s

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reggie;756064 wrote: No we have agreed to separate beds i shouldnt really hang my dirty shorts out here take up to much space

Nah, sorry.. no need to answer.. that is private.
I am just erm.. empathy wise - probably just relating things to myself etc
I will have to have a rant at some point but I just generally wanted to say something about how unfair things can be. You are a true hero to me for holding onto your guns and staying with your plan through such shitty hard stuff. :l
I've been there & I was not so graceful

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Lots of people get stuck with the old music they loved from their younger days - I probably would be too if it was a happy time - nothing wrong with listening to music that brings joy.
I went for years with nothing but babies, veggies & countryside - no way to access music whatever except 70's & 80's conservative stuff on the local radio.
When I finally got back into a city I went and bought CD's of the old albums I missed and realised that I don't miss that part of my life any more and I don't like a lot of my old music any more.
Every day I am listening to new and exciting things that remind me how much joy is out there!

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fickle;756069 wrote: Nah, sorry.. no need to answer.. that is private.
I am just erm.. empathy wise - probably just relating things to myself etc
I will have to have a rant at some point but I just generally wanted to say something about how unfair things can be. You are a true hero to me for holding onto your guns and staying with your plan through such shitty hard stuff. :l
I've been there & I was not so graceful

Im no hero ficks you are!!!! you went through it ... i havent got the guts to separate although we should my daughter keeps changing her mind " if you split up Ill stay with you daddy" or no "Ill stay with mummy" it breaks me to think she is saying this stuff its the kids that end up damaged that makes me angry but after 18 years the love is gone what ya do????? sorry for the serious post i prefer the funny Reg

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Oh Hon, it's serious.. hang in there if you can
It's a freakin nightmare to split for everyone.. I'm always the optimist about 'giving space' etc but no expert on that. I think I was pretty immature the whole time I was married. 18 years is no small achievement! You are a strong one and so is Mrs Reg.
Just a reminder, you've come through some seriously difficult stuff - your AF achievement is really important and that's just how it goes sometimes.. you make your biggest wins in life when nobody is looking... or just at the last minute when the other one is busy freaking :H

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betta get o sleep fickle thanks !!!!!your being here makes us all feel good you are a national treasure:l your post is so wise your right no one is looking when you do something right!!!
thanks reg

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Night Reggie,
MWAH!!

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Awwhh Ficks! Are those your babies??
They are gorgeous!!!!

[fickle]

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Hey Starty
Yes.. HUGS to you!

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That pic just made me smile !

[fickle]

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Howzit gong for you my friend?
(BTW Loooove Yur Underpantz)

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Pretty good here thanks Ficks.
Need to get back to the world of employment and am worrying a bit about that.
But I am sure all will fall into place. I just tend to be a bit of a worrier sometimes.

What about you? Hows your hip?

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I am going 'teriffically' in that I m back at work.. but I was naughty & skipped the last of the physio & stopped my tready routine & just basically went AWOL
I'm very sorry Capt Starts. BUT I am extremely GRATEFUL that you care to ask.

You are so brilliant Starty.. let me think a bit...