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[brittzak]

30 days???

MA....you will com e out on the other side a better woman. TRUST ME!

greenie...I love ur tree!

[cowgal]

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me too!

I love your tree too!! I am not having one this year, BUT am decorating a little in my bedroom, my little paradise here in this hectic house..................tried and tried to make it a home.............btw, my layer friend, who I will meet for dinner after my aa meeting, thinks I should try as much as I can to keep the house........................I think I will!! That would truly be a blessing if I could......................

off to take zac to school in the pouring rain, UCK!!! To tired of the rain.....................

xoxoxo MA:l:l:h

[greeneyes]

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keeping the house was a big goal of mine, MA. Do what you can. I'd spread out over the house and make it "mine" as much as possible so he doesn't feel "at home" there.

[more2life]

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Good idea, Greenie. Mike can go live with his dad. Get a roommate if you need to. I'm sure there are lots of people who need to room and board out there.

[cowgal]

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yeah

that is exactly what my friend said(lawyer, love him, aa buddy)....................will see him tonight at my fav meeting....................I am off to lunch w/ a dear friend from my riding club...................ttyl

love MA:l:h:l:h

[cowgal]

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bump

funny how that used to mean something totally different, another lifetime ago.......................xoxox keep this going guys, you are my lifeline!!! MA:l:h

[cowgal]

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me again!

I have strangely been up since about 3AM................my body clock is screwed up..............have an 8AM appt w/ a (will smith look alike) trainer to try to figure out what I am not doing right, losing too much weight, lifting TONS, but not showing, probably stress and not eating well enough.................??

off to work out before my session.............may as well...............then a few errands, then hopefully a nap before I start my 3 day 12 hour shifts................AAUUUURRRGGHH!!! Oh well, it IS a job, right!?? Working on website too..............will keep you all posted, hope something comes of it!!??

love and hugs, still looking forward to that divorce party btw!!!!!

MA:l:h:l

[cowgal]

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ok

Civil my ASS, excuse my french, but that is not really french is it!!?? Mike is being such an ASS...................I cannot wait to hear from my lawyer, I am going to have to spend more $$ cuz he is being ugly, just got home from a long rough 12 hour shift, killing me....................and to what!!?? A jerk, just yelling at me, telling me all kinds of mean things, not going into......................you have all heard it before.....................wish I would have listened to you guys years ago.....................I would have been reborn at 44 or so...............???!!!! I am so depressed feel like getting totally shitfaced drunk, but that will ruin a potentially nice day.........................don't want that.........................

Sorry to vent AGAIN!!! Need some feedback!!!!

love you guys!!!!:l:h:l:h

MA

[greeneyes]

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MA, he is going to be ugly but you don't have to listen and surely you know not to take it personally. What is it you expect to gain relative to Mike's behavior by talking to your lawyer? Nobody can make him act nicely. If you want to vent, do it here - we care for you and we're free. If you want a divorce right off, get one for his habitual drunkeness. Don't you DARE drink over him!! I mean it! We love you!

[cowgal]

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don't worry

have too much going for me to ruin it for that, going back to slep, we are missing our dog.........Mike threatened to kill my cat and horses, ugly huh!?!?!?!? Hate him.......................

xoxoxo :l:h:l:h


MA

[more2life]

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MA, Mike is an ass and has always been an ass as long as I've known you. Mike feels threatend and he will only get worse as time goes on. Do your best to ignore him. Don't be afraid to call he police if Mike threatens you, or the animals. Your friends are here for you.

I agree with Greenie, don't give Mike the satifaction of making you drink. It will only annoy him more that you're sober.

[cowgal]

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thanks,as usual!

I know he is an ass, is proving that more and more as time goes by, my lawyer friend (not my lawye)said it would get uglier before over.........................itis, he is right!! gotta try to get some rsleep, my legs and feet are cramping up soooooooo bad I cannot sleep, I hate this!!!!:upset::upset::upset:

MA:l:l:l

[greeneyes]

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MA, make sure you are drinking enough water. Calcium & especially magnesium may help leg cramping. Also, (ugh) a big swallow of apple cider vinegar.

You might consider a restraining order to have in effect.

[cowgal]

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will tr

zen recommended potassium, thought that was workinng drink tons of water, if I told you you would die!!!! apple cider vinegar??? Hell I will try anything at this point!!!

love MA:l:h

restraining order was brought up, just didn't want the karmah, lawwyer frien said it could make problems..........................

[greeneyes]

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