THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

[fickle]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

I prolly should'e come on here & posted but it would've been utter drivel. I can not stand myself in that state. Thus.. the disappearing act. I've come to think of it that way. I kind of turn away from meself once in that mood.

[fickle]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

I think I need to ask everyone a favour......

If I ever come on here feeling sorry for myself can you please use your collective brilliant sense of humour on me? I think it might snap me outta the MOOD! Can't be any worse anyhow.

Perhaps next time I will attempt that as an anti MOOD strategy.

Hmmmm... although if I can't verbalise it maybe I should just take a sleeping pill

Ergh.. that reminds me of that movie 'click' where he fast forwards over the bad bits (sigh)

[Guest]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

AH BEWWdifull ladies you the ficklester malakas you are not a weirdo Please thats my department third floor is the wonderful grower of the egg plant and music department yours... basement is Tawneys great tools department next to Aspys great snakes department...Mr G is up high on the Marshall Stacks level and Angel is mid level sharing with james for those who need the exercise departments... along with mame the triath training department as for Bridgee shes in the penthouse department making sure every one is performing at their best and ped eggedstered and dressed to a tee and performing well. So I think you need the combined wavey and tigger massage department !!!!! where one just SLIPPPPPPPPPS away in to wonderous relaxtion. AHH BEWWWWWdiful
Spireggios

[fickle]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

A lot of you guys on this thread have young children and have yet to deal with them as they get older. My present theory is that teenagers need to hate their parents. It's a sort of separation of identity thing. Unpleasant but normal.

Now most people have a partner so even when their kids hate them at least their partner is on their side. However as a single parent sometimes it feels really awful. To be hated by someone you love is tough. Thus I hate to be the disciplinarian... but that is my job.

I had a conversation with my son today (11 and my main agressor just now) and he asked me why I'm drinking today. I made it really clear that without his support I will never get our house in order... he referred back to that movie again (click) and said 'like the treehouse in click?' Spot on says I

So, even though I fell fairly hard, it may not have been wasted. I think when I used to drink all the time the kids thought of it as 'normal'. But now they've seen me so happy & clear they want me to stay that way. I hope this is not the beginning of a rollercoaster ride of disappointment for them!

Personally, with the daily dose I was acting 'normal' but quitting brings with it the hazard of the binge.. which I've already been warned is possibly more dangerous than the daily dose.

I think I'll wait till xmas eve then have another go. I've promisted in fact :H

[fickle]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

Ahh Spireggios
I :h you!
BTW... a cute anecdote came out the other evening over one of 'those' xmas drinks/dinners and someone told a story about how his tiny son had found a toy snake that he kept in his sock drawer (don't ask me why) and on the spur of the moment he had told the kid it was the most dangerous snake known to man - the 'trouser snake'.
Well guess what came up for news next day at kindy... daddy's verry terrible trouser snake!

[Guest]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

Sorry ficks got rid of spiros sorry for how ya feeling Im not much good to ya today maybe tommorrow..
Take care
Regios Malakas

[Guitarista]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

Evening all,
Keep the faith Reggie!
Hang in there Fick's, and please feel free to rant on if you want to. I reckon you and your's are gonna be ok.
Marvellous Hawney, marvellous!

A safe and sober day/night to all of you in the cheap seat's.

[Angelcakes]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

fickle;777928 wrote:
If I ever come on here feeling sorry for myself can you please use your collective brilliant sense of humour on me? I think it might snap me outta the MOOD! Can't be any worse anyhow.

*Rolls sleeves up* I'll handle this ones folks...funny hmmmm.... ..... ....I got nothing.

Ficks my dear, I hear your pain although I haven't been there so I can't fully understand. What I do know is that you're a great person, you're real - you see the stuff that a lot of people don't, the important stuff...the material & surface values don't mean a lot to you & that's a brilliant thing. You're deep. And though your son may not see this yet it's teaching him to also scratch a little deeper - try to find real meanings & truth. And this one day, will probably be your closest bond with him.

Evening G-Spot.
xo

[Guitarista]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

Evening Ang! Are you looking forward to Christmas?

[fickle]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

Thanks guys,
Proud to report Master 11 cleaned up & cooked dinner & did a brilliant job.
Perhaps it is ok to be human after all!

[Guitarista]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

Brilliant, Super mum!

[fickle]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

Ahh poop.. far from it G'ster
Thanks anyways!
How's life treating you lately eh?

[fickle]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

Have you got your internet sorted?

[fickle]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDosgkws0-c[/video]]YouTube - Jethro Tull: Skating Away On The Thin Ice ... (02/10/1977)
Nighters

[Guitarista]

THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER

Life is grand thank's Fick's.
Internet not sorted as yet, as it hasn't been a priority, but looking forward to updating to a beefy laptop and wireless soon. Then i'll be able to tune in and enjoy the musical thread, which i'm looking forward to. You and other folk's play such great stuff, i can tell.