I'm here Fick's, but alas, my p.c. won't let me chat. I can stay here for a while, or p.m's if that's any use? What's up?
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THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER
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THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER
I'm here Fick's, but alas, my p.c. won't let me chat. I can stay here for a while, or p.m's if that's any use? What's up?
'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'
Zen soul Warrior. Freedom today-
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THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER
Ok guys,
I will rant while I wait for you to reply... Am feeling generally overwhelmed.. I have 3 kids who are all old enough to look after themselves now in a personal sense.. shower, wash, make own lunch, wash own dish.. but they all just refuse! They throw crap everywhere, argue constantly, storm about the place slamming doors, disappear off to the skate park or the mall or whatever.. even my eldest (who was the most responsible) has become a 'sleep all day do nothing.. stay up all night on the internet' kind of person and she hasn't even finished year 10! I am freaking out about them for one thing... and I could go on... can you bear it?
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THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER
I also have this house that I proudly own (all by myself) and call a "home" but it is in need of a lot of work (which means cash). I have done great in the last few years and managed to work full time and deal with everything and make improvements... but I think it's christmas coming that is pulling me undone!
I'm so afraid that xmas will be a flop and everyone will hate me and I will run out of money and I won't get the kitchen finished and I won't get the new job and .... blahablahalbhadfk%%^(!!
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THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER
Christmas cannot be a flop Fick's, as long as there's love there, as i know there is. Get the kid's all around Christmas day, and any shenanigan's, well, can you work out a trade off system with them of sort's. You know, consequences. 2+2 =4.....etc?
'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'
Zen soul Warrior. Freedom today-
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THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER
Funny thing in life is either people often give me praise for keeping things together...
but if I ever let it slip that i am not perfect and not supermom and NOT keeping it together then I get DISGUST and AVOIDANCE which I do not like.
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THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER
fickle;769344 wrote: 'm so afraid that xmas will be a flop and everyone will hate me and I will run out of money and I won't get the kitchen finished and I won't get the new job and .... blahablahalbhadfk%%^(!!
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THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER
fickle;769349 wrote: Funny thing in life is either people often give me praise for keeping things together...
but if I ever let it slip that i am not perfect and not supermom and NOT keeping it together then I get DISGUST and AVOIDANCE which I do not like.
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THE NEXT DAY THREAD - DECEMBER
You may have to strip priorities right back. If kitchen's not ready, so be it! Maybe it'll just have to wait till after Christmas, or whenever. Love, love, family, love, food, tell em you love em, again, and let them know you're alway's there for them. But. You now, from this day on, don't take shit! But you'll have to work out appropriate consequences for any irresponsible, or slack behaviour. Who cares, or not chipping in attitudes won't cut it for long in the big wide world.
'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'
Zen soul Warrior. Freedom today-
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