December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

[rubywillow]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

Catch, you post away, hon. Get those feelings out, 'cause this is the place for that freedom. It feels good to finally say what we've felt for so long. And I DO think a good therapist could be the right way to go. Then maybe you can really take stock of your life now, and, once you get rid of AL, (which is complicating the complicated!) decide on you path. Don't let your life just live itself; take charge of it now, and make it what YOU want it to be. Like what MA is going through, change hurts, but just going along is deadly, to our soul, mind, and spirit. With or without a lifemate, we have to be individuals. We have to make our own decisions to become the best stand-alone person we can be before we can hope for happiness with another. I hope I'M not running on here. :hug: to you both, and everyone else out there. T, don't work too hard!

[tlrgs]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

just a quik stop in to say have a great day everyone love and hugs to one and all .. keep up the great work everyone and please vent and let it out ..you are being heard

[cowgal]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

hey all!!

just a quick note before I nod off for the night, feeling great, but sad, a few friends have some major issues going on, and am dying to help, but cannot............sucks.........I think I love life again.........just feel badly for others who are hurting, and I cannot help...........guess I will have to just let go w/ love...............

Rubes, it would be wonderful to visit in Feb for our Muse concert, cannot wait!!! I feel like a teenager again at 46, strange, huh!!??

T, how are u hanging in there, don't work too hard, would love some of your avocados............send some up this way...........

Everyone ok?? I miss you all, but have been pretty bored all day, here but not all the way if that makes any sense.................??

Lots of love and big hugs..................:l:h

MA

[tlrgs]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

hey there everyone well well cowgal you sound good girl ad its nice to help everyone but even nicer to just be someone to lean on .. so just be there for them cowgal.. sometimes thats all it takes ... and ruby hope you got some good rest from your weekend with the kids .. and well hope everyone else is still out there just trying and doing their best .. happy holidays one and all

[cowgal]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

T u are great!!

yeah, I have a shoulder to lean on, but it is thousands of miles away...............actually have a close friend here to do that, and we are going to spend the day together tomorrow.....yay:wd::happy::yay:

you guys are great!!! love ya!!!:l:h

MA

[catch22]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

Hiya ALL

Thx Ruby for ur input thats what i love about this place it feels good to open up... i suppose thinking way back the reason why i left home to get my own house with partner was to get away from under my dad roof i could not stand being there no more iam not saying i never felt anything for my otherhalf it was just that i never had that true butterfly feeling inside me if you now what i mean ...
My friend going thought a really tough time, went round her house y/day it was good to talk coffee talk coffee more talk and a big:l i could really see the hurt inside her.
MA its good to spend time with close friends hope you have a good time..

Right im off HO HO HO please God hope to see u here 2morrow.:l

[rubywillow]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

Had a wicked shopping day yesterday (I HATE CROWDS!!) and dentist appointment, so looking forward to a quiet day catching up at home. Nasty weather persists, and it affects my mood. Are ya'll aware that statistically depression is much worse during the winter season because of the darkness, cold, and short days? Try to get out every day regardless of the weather; it DOES improve the mood!

[cowgal]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

Yeah Rubes

I agree w/ you on the winter being depressing, I personally need the sunshine etc. In fact am sitting at the pool trying to enjoy what is probably going to be the last nice, warm semi-sunny day for a while, I love the sun & warmth!!

After this I am heading home to meet w/ blacksmith, have never met him before, always so sweet on the phone, he usually feeds them to catch them & does his thing, I leave him a check int the feed. bin.....

Work tonight, oh well, at least I have a job, right?! There are so many unfortunate Americans unemployed right now, thank god I am a nurse!!!

Lots of love guys!!!

MA

[betty boop]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

Hiya everyone, Ruby it's lovely to see you on facebook!!!!

Catch & MA, i'm really sorry to hear of your troubles, my prayers and hugs are with you both ..........

I've had a really tearful few days, my mum and dad are both doing well and yesterday I just broke down and cried ........... and cried ........... my dad just told me to pull myself together and snap out of it :shocked::upset:, and after the few months that I have had I really thought that I just deserved a hug!!!! but hey ho, today I got my own back by getting angry and now I don't actually feel anybetter.

Anyway big big hugs to my lovely friends here, I really do love you all ............BB xxxxxxxx

[tlrgs]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

hi there everyone catch22 ,ma,ruby , BB.. WELL WOKE UP EARLY AND GOT BUSY AND DID ALOT TODAY GOT A TRUCK TO PICK UP THE FREE LUMBER SORRY CAPS ..some inside trim and some 2x6 and all worth something .. the truck is almost done i did alittle bitching and now i told him that i need the truck for thursday so i can pull the trialer and do some moving for someone .. but thats still up in the air .. but still things are looking up thank god well hope everyone has a great evening stay strong and keep thinking positive big cyber hugs TO ONE AND ALL

[catch22]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

Hiya evryone...hope all is well:l
I got my winter blues this year ruby in october b4 the clockS went back wish i could stay in bed all day.
Betty Glad to hear ur mum and dad are doing better! you know you have been going through a lot with your dad ill and mum, a good cry works wonders heres a big hug from me:l you deserved it..
Mr T YOU bitching
MA im so glad i got my job, its bad everywhere.
Good news my hubby might have a job at long last his gone in today and on f/day if he gets it he will start after xmas, keeping xmas very simple this year cant spend to much my son just wants cash, he saving up to buy a car not pass driving test yet! we had to stop his lessons not enough money it would worry me if he did get a car. people just seem to drive mad now days. Anyway my daughter the other day give me her laptop she wants me to burn it, she been having a bit of a rough time at school (with a best friend who she fell out with) on the bus (a boy from her primary school picks on her, rang his school up which did get sorted out, but he stops and starts up again he said sorry and will not go on the same number bus again not sure how long that will last for) and on facebook! im so glad she give me her laptop she seems to be so much better in herself theres a lot of bulling going on.
You know i go through stages where i loss wieght or put on well this time i put on really need to stop drinking so im going to start on sunday reason is, meeting up with friends on saturday for xmas meal and a bit of a disco afterward but im making sure i will behave myself and not go overboard....
LOVE 2u ALL.X

[cowgal]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

BB& Catch!

Sounds like you definitely need a big ole hug BB, glad mum & dad are doing ok, but somtimes all the stress can really get to you, sorry!!

Catch, sounds like your daughter needs a hug, kids can be s mean, especially teens!!!! Sorry for her...... As for weight, you will lose iti am sure, just stopping al will make it melt away!!

T, thanks for the big hugs, need one right no, so tired, am on
my 2nd pot of coffee & 3 energy drinks, just cannot keep my eyes open!!!

Much love guys!!! MA:l

[tlrgs]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

well just a quik stop in im running late again .. tell you the truth im tired but moving forward and pushing along... well have a great day everyone im off to work BIG BIG CYBER HUGS TO ONE AND ALL

[catch22]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

Hi all to come!
Not much to say today but just thought i come in to say hello.
Cold day yesterday but enjoyed working in the playground watching the kids getting excited about the snow...
Have a good day 2u ALL.x

[cowgal]

December to remember so whos ready get your ass in gear

luv 2 you all!

You have all been my lifeline!! Catch, you are great!! T, Ruby everyone here, love you all.................really care alot about you all!!!:l:h

MA:h